Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

more or less.... one of my boy friends has used me just for sex...... what should i do????

2007-01-08 23:17:44 · 17 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I live together about 2 years.I love him and I stay with him even though we fight alot and our characters are very different.My visa expired 1 year ago and I was in the process of legalizing my stay but my lawyer made a terrible mistake and I lost a chance.I still go to school here,work and pay taxes.Since my visa expired 1 year ago in order to legalize my stay I need to get married to American citizen.I was hoping my boyfriend was going to offer me a marriage because we love each other and he knows my situation.He was talking about it and promising me but...I can't wait anymore.Another problem is that my boyfriend and I fight alot and I am not sure if our relationship will last as long as I hope.I have a good friend who I know for 6 years.He told me that he can marry me just to help me to legalize my stay.In this case I think I trust my friend more than my boyfriend.What should I do?

2007-01-08 23:17:09 · 12 answers · asked by angel v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 23:15:40 · 24 answers · asked by joann_bll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it very important to you if your life partner is different religion with you?

2007-01-08 23:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Singles & Dating

Help for boy name:
Nathaniel or Alexander do you like?

2007-01-08 23:14:56 · 8 answers · asked by Aneta S 1 in Family

they are always trying to show them and get them out at every opportunity! Even send pics on the phone! Why?

2007-01-08 23:14:36 · 20 answers · asked by kiku 4 in Singles & Dating

Work, school, internet? Where did you meet your partner?

2007-01-08 23:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by sydneymyke86 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and he still sees alot of his old social circle which includes his Ex and lots of other couples that they were friends with before splitting up. They play on the same sports team. I understand that he still wants to see them and don't stop him or make a fuss because I know he loves me not her. Recently though I have started to wonder why he hasn't introduced me to any of that particular social group ye. We got together very soon after their split and I appreciated that he wouldn't want to "rub her nose in it" by parading me around in front of her, but a year on I feel it's time they all got used to the idea that he's moved on. I suggested that he invite me along next time they get together, and he's said the reason he hasn't before now is that they are very clicky and he is worried that I will feel uncomfortable around them. He has agreed that I will come along next time but I still feel funny about the whole thing. Any Advice?

2007-01-08 23:13:26 · 21 answers · asked by L x 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met a man, who is amazing in every way. Hes kind, loving, intelligent, funny and a few good many other things. But he has no clothes sence, he dresses older than he is. I love clothes, and fashion. And no I'm not shallow, I just like to look good, and he adores the clothes I wear. Almost expects me to dress the way I do. I love this man so much, and hes the best thing thats happened to me. He does know he has no clothes taste, so would it be so bad if I pointed him in the right direction??

2007-01-08 23:11:25 · 26 answers · asked by Chickette 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 23:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by joann_bll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 23:10:38 · 16 answers · asked by tyler 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know, I know, someone, many ones, have posted this before, but they are not me and I need some sympathy. I'm in love with a girl that I see every night and we hang out plutonically all the time, I even hang out with her family. We started just hangin out as friends, but I started falling for her, and now everything about her is magic from her pink New Balance sneakers to the way she sticks a pen in her hair to tie her hair back. She's recently single, but probably not for long because I can see the guys lining up and knocking on the door to get in. I truly enjoy being her friend and feel that letting her know I am crazy about her will alter or end our relationship. I wonder if I should just suffer in silence just to have her in my life, I think I could, but I know when she has her next boyfriend, I will die inside. Can anyone lend advice? Thanks.

2007-01-08 23:09:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this morning i think and want to visit my best friend called lorena very much because i never see her since 2 months ago.i come to lorena'home, i try to knock many times but i understand no body is not around at home and lorena is deaf. i open to find an unknown pregnant who is crying and already birthing a baby by alone. i become afraid how to remove and cut the placenta btw them . i run into the kitchen to look the plastic to wear glove and knife.i remove her baby out of her vagina and cut the placent of baby and knot the baby with wool from my hair to him. she becomes dead. i am very worried and wait for her family but they do not come here long time about 8 hours. i cannot run to call doctor because of baby is alone at home i am afraid if unknown people can steal baby. in my country most people like to steal or kill only babies and kids age only below 3 years old.
i care baby a lot until they come and said i kill her.they want to tell policeman.
how will i tell them truth??? sad!

2007-01-08 23:09:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-08 23:05:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

go home?

2007-01-08 23:05:16 · 18 answers · asked by Puma 4 in Friends

Can anyone give me some ideas of things to do? I've done all my work, cleaned the office, tidyed the stationary cupboard and empited out my drawers in my desk.
I don't like getting bored, I get a bit destructive if I do!!! lol

2007-01-08 23:04:52 · 18 answers · asked by xXMichelleXx 3 in Singles & Dating

I have asked a two questions : one about porn & one about chat rooms. I noticed that everyone has a diffrent idea of what cheating is. Does anyone have a real answer? so what do u consider cheating.

Here is my answer: sharing ideas, feelings, and time (online or off) with another person other than your spouse,changing your normal routine,going out of your way to help her/him, thinking about her/him sexually.

Lets keep sex out of it

2007-01-08 23:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by KB48 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf want to move in together wen we cn afford it is 4mths datin too soon???

2007-01-08 23:02:45 · 15 answers · asked by luce1234 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i been dating this guy for alittle over a year. He has recently asked me to have sex with a friend (of his choice) while he watches.. and if i would be comfortable watching him have sex with another girl of (my choice) my question is why.. what would someone get out of watching there partner with someone else?? I'm not put off by the idea but i would like to know the thinking behind it before i make a decition..

2007-01-08 23:00:30 · 32 answers · asked by angeliss 2 in Singles & Dating

if u happen to meet agian,.

2007-01-08 23:00:14 · 22 answers · asked by kau la poo 2 in Singles & Dating

is not being able to cope with my ex finding & being with someone else. I have children & am prone to depression so i'd hate to spiral & take my kids down with me. Any ideas as i'd reallylike to get out of this cold relationship.

2007-01-08 22:57:48 · 8 answers · asked by Mishell 4 in Marriage & Divorce

And why?

2007-01-08 22:57:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like the way he talk, the way he care...ect

2007-01-08 22:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Singles & Dating

the criteria like religion,race,education,
economic status,personality,height,weight.
besides,how old do you think is suitable to marry?

2007-01-08 22:55:37 · 5 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Singles & Dating

I have fallen out with my sisters huband due to his rude and arrogent ways, I dont feel comfortable round their home as they are both extremly house proud, however I wont to give my niece her present what would you do

2007-01-08 22:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I adore her and I want to make love to her but I seem to lack cofidence.

I am scared of rejection.

What can I do ?

2007-01-08 22:52:47 · 18 answers · asked by blurt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 22:50:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 22:50:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-08 22:49:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man tells a woman that he didn’t "think it was a good idea to get together that night".

Later he tells her the reason he said no is because she said she wanted him to be patient with her and go slow, he thought what she meant by going slow was to get to know one another and be friends first and he didn't want to take advantage of her.

Should she believe him? And if so does that mean he cares about her (not just into her for sex).

2007-01-08 22:49:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating