2007-01-08 23:15:40 · 24 answers · asked by joann_bll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO! I know I wouldn't go and I wouldn't allow my husband to go. I would be so angry. To me, that's cheating. He is lusting after another woman while married. If I were you I would definitely just go with your own gut, you know your husband and only you can determine what the right thing for your marriage is, but I would be so hurt if my husband were attending a strip club.... Paying to see another woman body parts is wrong in my eyes. Good luck hun, I so hope you work this out.
2007-01-09 04:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you go, go because you want to and not to just make him happy. My husband and I have been to strip clubs together and we have a good time. I don't mind him watching the dancers, but he knows that is all he is allowed to do...lap dances are against our rules. We talked about all of that kind of stuff before we ever went. He also only goes when I go with him, he never goes without me. It's fun, we make a night out of it...the sex is always amazing when you get home...if you can even make it home!
2007-01-09 12:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Krisie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband asked me to go to a strip club, I would respect him for asking me instead of his perverted friends. I think it can be an experience for the two of you for the simple fact that some men go outside the marriage because they aren't getting something from their spouse. In this case he's inviting you. Watch and learn and know who he's going home with. Keep an open mind. Be excited, laugh, make comments, like I can do that. Enjoy your night with him! Bring a chair and do a little teasing yourself because you will the only one pleasing him to. Hope this makes sense!
2007-01-09 07:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you should both respect each others wishes. I don't see anything wrong with going with him. I have been with my husband because my curiosity wanted to go. We only went a few times, I have a good time too. If you really are against it, maye try talking to him to see why he wants to and find out the reason you don't. Marriage is a compromise and in something that isn't harmful like this, it's good to not be completely one way or the other.
2007-01-09 07:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want to. if you go just cuz it will make him happy, but dont want to be there he will notice and you both will have a terrible time. if you do go try to have fun. you tip the girls on the stage instead of him doing it. maybe even put the bill somewhere fun for him to watch, on you, then have the dancer remove it. you may even have more fun when you get home. wink wink
2007-01-09 07:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go with him, but let him know that you both will have to leave if you start feeling uncomfortable. You should definitely try to go so you can see for yourself what his fuss is all about.
The best thing of all this, he will come home to you. Anyway, only you can please him after all this ordeal!
Have Fun!
2007-01-09 07:27:40 · answer #6 · answered by Pocahontas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go. Why not? Hang out with him and have a couple of drinks. He might want you to dress up for him and dance at home! I would do that, too...at home! For my husband ONLY. LOL.
2007-01-09 07:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk about why he wants you to go. If you both want to see some erotic dancing - go for it. If you enjoy it go again. If you don't - then make it the last time.
2007-01-09 07:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Sixpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to go
it can be fun and the best part is you get to take home a man who is so hot and ready you may not make it into the house
2007-01-09 07:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definintely not.A good and faithful husband will never ask you to do such shameful things, much less in public.I am sure you will also not approve if you have a daughter in the same predicament.
2007-01-09 07:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kenneth S 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋