Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

he's thinking about a small ring, just off center...

now bear in mind he's 25yrs old and recently seems to be displaying signs of an early midlife crisis, what advice should i offer him?

2007-01-08 22:20:13 · 10 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend has asked to come and see me tonight as she's been very upset recently over her relationship. I'm really struggling to think of advice that I can give her.
She has been with her boyfriend for about 9 months, he moved into her rented house after being with her for about 4 months, which I thought was a little fast considering she lives with her 9 year old son. After 2 months of living together, they decided to buy a house together. So after 6 months, they made a financial commitment. I had reservations which I CAREFULLY told her, but they went ahead anyway.
She is now about 16 weeks pregnant with his baby. When they first found out, they were ecstatic, but now they have moved into their new house, she is desperatly unhappy.
I know that she will have alot of hormones flying around, which wont be helping. I want to give her advice to help her feel happy again, but all I can see is the end of the relationship. I want what's best for her, her son and the baby.

2007-01-08 22:17:36 · 9 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 22:14:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex-gf called me after a month after the breakup just to say hi ...she is with another guy now ...she has no problem talking to me ..but yet, I do sometimes because my feeligns are still there for her, but I manage to stay friends with her, and not talk about love things at ll ..but, I wonder why she called me, and seems to still want to talk to me ...? is it because she thinks I'm his friend or ..something else? what do you think ?

2007-01-08 22:14:11 · 13 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked her If she masturbated & she said no. She is normally very tight. What would make her very loose. Does this happen to all women? I love her so much & I do not believe she would cheat on me. Please advise.

2007-01-08 22:13:54 · 7 answers · asked by warscoob 2 in Singles & Dating

Umm.. I'm a geek.

2007-01-08 22:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by animescifigamer359 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 22:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean think about it. Women out number men, and women are bountiful on this earth, which makes my chances of getting 1 maybe 10 high. So why sweat a woman who is no good to me?Or even you men out there.

2007-01-08 22:12:11 · 7 answers · asked by brandley_1999 2 in Singles & Dating

do you agree or disagree in divorce ? why or why not ?

2007-01-08 22:11:45 · 9 answers · asked by nyclepern 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 22:11:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sex is good but he doesn't last long as long as i'd like him 2. would he feel offended if i suggested this to him? should i ask him or not?

2007-01-08 22:11:24 · 18 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been having a problem lately with my boyfriend. I met him at a Halloween party in october and we have been inseperable since. He's very sweet to me and treats me like a queen. The relationship has been going on 3 months now, and i felt like I am starting to fall for him. I let him know that I was and he told me that he didn't love me back. I was fine with that, considering that I wasn't expecting him to automatically love me back. The problem is I think that he sees the relationship as more fun and carefree if anything. He told me that he doesn't think he'll fall for me, and I should probably not try to have any hope for him. We were both virgins when we met, and he had never had a real relationship before. My question is, should I stay and see how it goes, or aim for something more. Alot of people have told me that he might be afraid to fall in love, but I'm not sure. Any suggestions would be great!

2007-01-08 22:10:45 · 5 answers · asked by number1toolfool 2 in Singles & Dating

I got caught looking at porn, now the missus doesn't trust me and thinks i'm a devious deviant. I have been very foolish and cannot bear the fact that she no longer trusts me. i have tried reassuring her that it will never happen again but she doesn't believe me (can't say i blame her). I have made a huge mistake and ruined our family life. I am ripping myself to bits over this and need some advice as to wether it is possible for me to prove I am trustworthy (I am). I love my missus and son dearly and will never forgive myself if i lose them over this. i have genuinely learnt from this and would never do it again. any advice on what i should do to prove this would be appreciated.

2007-01-08 22:10:35 · 14 answers · asked by prittygud 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can anyone tell me what are the best tactic to chase after a gal and is a sure get. Because when i chase a gal, i always be truthfully and sincere to the gal but it always fail. Can anyone tell me??

2007-01-08 22:10:00 · 3 answers · asked by curious guy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 22:08:31 · 8 answers · asked by mfonakoshi 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has lied to me in the past so turst has become an issue for us. To my knowledge he has not lied to me in about a year until recently when I discovered that he had done something that he had previously promised not to do (looking at porn). When I confronted him he appolgized for "hurting" me and told me he made a mistake. He also lied about the details (why, when, etc..). He told me that the reason he did it was because he did not think I would ever find out. He has aked me to forgive him but I am finding it difficult to do that. It seems logical to me that if he continues to lie or be deceptive when he does not think I will find out about something then he should not be trusted?? I feel that if an opportunity presented itself for him to cheat on me and he thought I would never know, he would cheat without a second thought. Please give me some thoughts on this because I am torn between being logical (and acknowledging that this will not be the last time) and my love for him.

2007-01-08 22:08:00 · 17 answers · asked by B 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Best friend and not at all interested in each other.

2007-01-08 22:04:00 · 25 answers · asked by Principessa 1 in Friends

I've been planning to take Lucas to my sophomore gala. Lucas was MU with one of my closest friends for 5 months. It's been 7 months since they broke up. My friend just recently got over him. I didn't know how to approach her and tell her about my plans, today she asked if i was bringing anyone. I told her i was bringing Lucas and things became so awkward and hard for us. I think she's hurt. What should I do?

2007-01-08 22:02:36 · 5 answers · asked by primandproper 2 in Friends

2007-01-08 22:02:35 · 14 answers · asked by mukie 1 in Singles & Dating

just out of curiosity. If a guy gets out of a 3year relationship and tries to quickly jump into relationships and gets rejected by several girls and finally settles with a co-worker, is that considered rebound?

2007-01-08 22:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by LT 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your dad is angry with you and you want it to end

2007-01-08 22:01:38 · 11 answers · asked by bob 3 in Family

How do you think a girl that plays hockey likes their men? rugged and ulta tough (the bad boy image), or a guy that is strong, both physically and mentally and has a nice soft side that comes out when appropriate?

2007-01-08 22:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by holyitsacar 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner have been together for 2 years. I am a really jelous person and don't like him looking at other women as I find it disrespectful.I am the person he is with why should he need to look at other girls.We keep falling out over this as he keeps saying its natural every man does it, but I don't see it like that. Am I in the wrong and should I let him have porn and things on his phone?

2007-01-08 22:00:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my bf... who has been with me for the last 3 years, we live together. And my bf love me very much.
I like one of my boy friends, and he likes me, but he loves his gf, who has been together and living for 3 years.

Is this 4 parts relationship??

2007-01-08 22:00:33 · 4 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 22:00:26 · 9 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem, and I am not promiscuous at all, it's just when my ex wants sex, I tell him I do not want to, that it isn't right and he just won't accept it. He pushes and pushes until all my resolve is broken, and now I know you will say it is my fault for being there and yes it partly is, because I do not trust him to be with the kids on his own, so in order for them to spend time with him I do as well, I believe they should have a chance to know their father and if in time they do not want to see him I will not make them, but how do I get him to keep his hands off me? I mean it really hurts that he disrespects me and does what he likes whether I like it or not, and yes I know, my fault because I am there, but I do not want my kids missing out on their dad, no matter how he treats me

2007-01-08 22:00:20 · 9 answers · asked by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i picked the wrong guy and gave the wrong finger...u know..the usuall...now what to do with this beautifull dress? i'm in love with it but i don't think i'll ever get to wear it..i'm not even sure i want to get married to anyone ever. but if i did i'd want this same dress...do you think i should sell it? its never been worn. i don't want any future fiance to think i'm a freak that already bought my wedding dress when i met him either.

2007-01-08 21:59:09 · 17 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Weddings

2007-01-08 21:58:32 · 3 answers · asked by nthabi 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think being in touch with your ex is a bad thing if you are with someone else, even if it was an ex from a long time ago? If you found out your partner was in touch with their ex would it bother you even if it was totally innocent?

2007-01-08 21:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 21:55:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce