do you think being in touch with your ex is a bad thing if you are with someone else, even if it was an ex from a long time ago? If you found out your partner was in touch with their ex would it bother you even if it was totally innocent?
2007-01-08 21:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes in a way, becuase I don't believe that a male and a female who have been romanticaly involved before can then be friends after, there will always be something there maybe.
I wouldn't like it if a b-friend still kept in contact with his ex girlfriend. I don't know, I guess ask yourself the same question.
If my boyfriend asked me not see my ex boyfriend i wouldn't anymore out of respect for my new boyfriend.
2007-01-08 22:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the situation/the reason for splitting up/whether there was still feelings involved etc.
I dont keep in touch with my last long term ex (I have a boyfriend) theres no need. He wanted to stay in touch, whereas I saw it as he was in the past, and had nothing left to say to him.
If my boyfriend now decided to get in touch with his last ex I'd be annoyed. Theres no reason for them to still talk, innocent or not. They split on fairly bad terms, nearly 2 years ago, so I wouldnt be happy about it.
Although he sees his first long term ex (they have a daughter together) so thats fine by me, I know thats innocent/theres a reason
2007-01-08 23:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex of 16 years ago lives below us. He is an uncle to my little girl so to speak. He comes and visits on sunday evenings and we all have dinner together. My partner don't mind.
2007-01-08 22:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Part Time Cynic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my ex tried to stay in touch, but it was always me contacting him and making the effort and in the end i got bored of always being the one making the effort (annoyed the hell out of me when we were together) needless to say we haven't spoke for over a year. My current boyfriend still speaks to his ex but they have a child together and it does bug me that we have to tell her if we are going away or planning anything together
2007-01-08 22:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Alik411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was from like 2 or more years ago then i wouldn't mind...however i live with mine and everytime i see him my emotions boil over and i hate him...so its not good at all if its a recent thing...other exes of mine i've gone on to be really really good friends with..
2007-01-08 22:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say no because your bird now should not be bothers i mean if u want to tell ur ex things that you cant ur new bried thats fine by me
2007-01-08 22:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by joshua t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they kept it secret, i would think there would be a reason to suspect. a recent ex might bother me, but it´s been a long time, i don´t think i would care.
2007-01-08 22:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not a bad thing and it wouldn't bother me at all
2007-01-08 22:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still great friends with my first ex...and she was yesterday's news 24 years ago...In fact, I'm her computer man....
2007-01-08 22:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be angry if my ex was in contact with an ex
2007-01-08 22:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by D D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋