I've been having a problem lately with my boyfriend. I met him at a Halloween party in october and we have been inseperable since. He's very sweet to me and treats me like a queen. The relationship has been going on 3 months now, and i felt like I am starting to fall for him. I let him know that I was and he told me that he didn't love me back. I was fine with that, considering that I wasn't expecting him to automatically love me back. The problem is I think that he sees the relationship as more fun and carefree if anything. He told me that he doesn't think he'll fall for me, and I should probably not try to have any hope for him. We were both virgins when we met, and he had never had a real relationship before. My question is, should I stay and see how it goes, or aim for something more. Alot of people have told me that he might be afraid to fall in love, but I'm not sure. Any suggestions would be great!
2007-01-08 22:10:45 · 5 answers · asked by number1toolfool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me that you made the Beast with 2 Backs when you said, "We were both virgins when we met"
Evidently both of you got what you wanted at one time and now the fantasy is over. You are feeling guilty and he is not. Once you climb a mountain the conquest is over and you look for another mountain. I suppose now you will believe that sex is not so great after all. Respect is also an issue here also. Hope you nderstand what I am saying.
2007-01-08 22:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The longer you stay the more your feelings are going to grow.
He might be scared of getting hurt. Maybe he is scared of ´opening´ up to someone.
However, you should talk to him. You said you were both virgins, im guessing you not anymore. Dont know if this is a important thing to you, but if so, like i said, the longer you stay the deeper your feelings will grow.
Let him know, that if he is not ready to open up to you, to take your relationship that step further then you dont know how long its going to last.
Yes, i know its difficult but think of yourself. In the end, if it doesnt work, you going to get hurt.
2007-01-09 06:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a casual relationship you want, stay and enjoy. If you're looking for someone to get serious with, you're wasting your time with this one.
2007-01-09 06:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go
he will come to you if he can finally understand your love to him
2007-01-09 06:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to leave.
What's the point?
2007-01-09 06:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Cr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋