Should I still bring Lucas?

Question

I've been planning to take Lucas to my sophomore gala. Lucas was MU with one of my closest friends for 5 months. It's been 7 months since they broke up. My friend just recently got over him. I didn't know how to approach her and tell her about my plans, today she asked if i was bringing anyone. I told her i was bringing Lucas and things became so awkward and hard for us. I think she's hurt. What should I do?

Answer 1

Are you kidding? Best friends don't do that. Ok, two of my closest friends and I did that in high school. One would go out with Dan and Dan would leave her and go to the next and leave her and go to the next and so on. Dan married a girl from out of state, go figure. Any way, please think of your friend. When you ask her, let the environment be calm and peaceful with nobody else around.

Answer 2

One of the things that friends do not do to each other is date someone that the other person was formally involved with, especially if the friend went through a very emotional breakup with the boy in question. I think you should reconsider and not take Lucas to the dance since it is going to hurt your friend's feelings.
Put the shoe on the other foot, how would you feel if she were going to go out with someone that you still had feelings for?
This situation is one of the codes that you never break. If you are really a friend, you will not take him to the gala.

Answer 3

its not good to go ut with a friends x.... that is if u r a true friend... be conciderate to her feelings and dont take him.. this time, if u hav true feelings for lucas, with time mabe u can explain things to her and hopefully bythen she will haave gotten over him

Answer 4

You should start acting like a friend.

Answer 5

Don't tell her, just do it... None of her business anymore, she's moved on...