my ex-gf called me after a month after the breakup just to say hi ...she is with another guy now ...she has no problem talking to me ..but yet, I do sometimes because my feeligns are still there for her, but I manage to stay friends with her, and not talk about love things at ll ..but, I wonder why she called me, and seems to still want to talk to me ...? is it because she thinks I'm his friend or ..something else? what do you think ?
2007-01-08 22:14:11 · 13 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorta depends on how long you two were together. If it was a long time, it could be that she just misses you. You were close for a long time and now you haven't been and she's moved on but still in a way needs the ok from you for this other guy. Sounds twisted but could be how she's thinking
2007-01-08 22:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf did the same thing. At first I thought it was because she wanted to make herself feel better by trying to be friends because she's the one that broke up with me, but eventually she and I got back together, so her friendliness after breaking up with me was more of a keeping the relationship ties so that she could hook back up later. I would think that she's not trying to rub it in unless she was generally mean spirited in the first place. My gf however didn't go out with anyone else during our time apart which was the length of about 7 months.
2007-01-08 22:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it a typo error there when you asked if she thinks you are "his" friend? Did you mean "her"?
In any case, it is hard to tell what's on her mind? Nobody except her can tell us that!
There could be thousands of reasons:
1. She still has feelings for you. She broke up because she didn't want to stand in the way of your future/ambition. Wow, that is real LOVE!
2. She likes you as friend, you are fun to talk to but not as a boyfriend
3. You have a car and would always drive her to where she wants but her new BF doesn't
4. She might just want to have sex with you without strings attached. She prefers the way you make love to her compared to him
The list goes on......
2007-01-08 22:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by ah_loong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absolutely certain it has nothing to do with your grace...I would imagine it is a pun based on the appearance and texture of your fingers, hands, and possibly body as a whole. Maybe she feels you are overweight, or greasy, or perhaps you just don't wash your hands after you eat and it grosses her out. How can anyone possibly answer this without knowing more details about you and the situation?
2016-05-22 22:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up with one girl about 3 years ago and we are still always talking on the phone and internet. And there is still lots of love - maybe even more than before, but we just realised that we didn't get on very well in the same house...
So i reckon the love is always there, it just takes a different form.
2007-01-08 22:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is entirely over you, there's still some feelings there, I think the reason why she calls you is to find out weather you have met anybody else yet. Either that all she's playing games with you!
2007-01-08 22:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that she wants to remain friends but I believe she is probably just keeping you around in case things don't work out with this new one...Tell her that you would appreciate her not calling as it is still a little hard for you....
2007-01-08 22:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, dear friend, she might want to just stay friends with you, because she has a new guy...the truth will hurt, but you just have to embrace it...don't get your hopes up on thinking that she still feels the same way...but remember...the world doesn't stop turning when she walked out the door...i bet there's that special someone there, waiting for you to sweep her off her feet...go find her and stop pining for her...it's bad for the face : )
2007-01-08 22:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by chinggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is what you want ,
if you have something unsolved with her ,it does not matter with whom she is now.
Dont think too much , its usless.
Just go to her and then say what you want to say to her.
2007-01-08 22:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by earthlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... dont think twice cause if you dont you will ended up with "WHAT IF's? she is moving on and doing the right thing by casting the pains and hatred through reconciliation, so better do the same.
2007-01-08 22:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by jennylyn p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋