2007-01-08 23:10:38 · 16 answers · asked by tyler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
find out that you didn't know that your husband or wife was hidding what ever. no matter what keep in mind no matter how long you have knowen her/him after you get married you find something new about them. people never are who they seem to 100%.
2007-01-11 02:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by lady_jane_az 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the hardest thing about marriage is to understand the differences you and your partner have and are able to come to agreements. Understanding that you can't change your partner no matter how hard you try. Be understanding and considerate of their feeling as well as their differences. Marriage is a very complicated union, it takes two to make it work. It can't be a one-sided union.
2007-01-09 07:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by godbeyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Children! They are the greatest reward but take the greatest toll in those first years of marriage and first years of childhood! Finding time and energy for one another is important and those first years it becomes a struggle managing money, babies, etc.!
2007-01-09 07:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obedience part. Long ago women were downtrodden, and behaved like they were owned by these guys. But now when they know they have brains and can think for themselves, it is difficult to accept everything your husband says just because he is your husband.
2007-01-09 07:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by shameem356 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe marriage is any different than bieng in a committed relationship....everyone makes a big deal out of that "M" word...It is loving,caring,trusting,sharing,giving,committing. If you ain't up to the challenge then don't do it.
2007-01-09 07:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a common ground from which to work from together - it can take a few years.
2007-01-09 07:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sufficient tolerance and patience toward one another on a steady, ongoing basis. Having enough forgiveness, because you are BOTH going to make mistakes and hurt one another's feelings; it happens.
2007-01-09 10:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication. You have to make sure your always on the same page. Remember to listen and make sure you understand what the other is saying. Good luck
2007-01-09 07:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step children. Its so hard to find a common ground. It's awful.
2007-01-09 07:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tami H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce.
2007-01-09 07:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Philip76LostLove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋