I have asked a two questions : one about porn & one about chat rooms. I noticed that everyone has a diffrent idea of what cheating is. Does anyone have a real answer? so what do u consider cheating.
Here is my answer: sharing ideas, feelings, and time (online or off) with another person other than your spouse,changing your normal routine,going out of your way to help her/him, thinking about her/him sexually.
Lets keep sex out of it
2007-01-08 23:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by KB48 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cheating is having feelings and interactions with others, what all men know so well to do
2007-01-08 23:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Chel1525 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if deal with a man and wife cheating is the moment the thought enters the mind according to God . i do my best to do what he says.
the part you wrote about on line with other person it may be cheating sure . however it is far from the real thing. . you mention going out of way to help them so to me that seems to mean they meet up in person .
i suppose if people are not going to adhere to his commandments and teaching i mean God then its all at least seeming to be near the point of heating.
i am sorry buy i just got home from er and i am not even seeing well so my writing is off here.
i think that what is best is the truth. the man here knows what was cheating and what isn't.
i suggest you forgive this man regardless of his action and discuss how to prevent the beast from ruling the body and instead let it be lead by love which is kind.
i hope you manage to sort through all of this together and love each other.
2007-01-08 23:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sex does not have to be involved in cheating. It can be considered cheating when the guy goes out with another girl whom he's fond of, he would probably tell u, it's just a friend, but one day u find out that he went out with the girl without telling u. That would eventually lead to something more - usually friendly hugs which will later on lead to kisses, so on and so forth.
2007-01-08 23:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by sugarscamp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think of what i would not like my bf to do, and what i would think was cheating if he had to do something.
You dont want sex in it, that's obvious cheating.
If my bf had to just kiss or hold another girls hand, that in itself would be enough. That's cheating.
I dont think sharing ideas or feelings is cheating.
And friends can help each other out and share feelings.
Until something is done about your thoughts, its not cheating.
Action is more......
2007-01-08 23:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a really bad mood with my b/f 1 day. He couldn't fugure out why.
Well...he wouldn't have, because he only cheated in a bad dream I had. I then realised, I've never felt this strongly about anyone before. Strange, but I am.
2007-01-08 23:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by siany warny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think cheating is basically being involved sexually or in love with someone else during a commited relationship.
2007-01-08 23:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is what you perceive it to be and only you can know if you feel cheated on one person may not think of it the same way you do
2007-01-08 23:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is if you hide a person from your partner. (if you are afraid that she/he will find out about that person) or if you feel guilty about being with that person instead of your partner.
2007-01-08 23:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋