We've been married 5yrs, together 7 last sept. In Aug of 04 He cheated, and a child was born. I have accepted this child into my life and we have about 50% visitation. It was supposedlly a One nighter with babymama, and we went to counseling and we're on the road to recovery. He didn't want anything to do w/ daughter, b/c he didn't want to deal w/ the mom, etc. He went to counseling alone for his issues also. I pushed the issue b/c I didn't want to be w/ someone who could ignore his own child. So, we went to court, and we have visitation, and he pays CS.
My issues are that he helps me w/ absolutely nothing around the house, our appt. is a wreck b/c I work full time also and have found myself depressed and overwhelmed. My other issue is that I want a child of my own eventually and he is dead set against it now b/c he already has one. I told him that's unfair, but then I think do I really want a child w/ this man anyway? He doesn't help w/ **** and he's not responsible.
2007-01-01
01:57:09
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SweetasCandy
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Marriage & Divorce