2007-01-01 02:09:04 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I should also say that I kept it from the woman that I was cheating with that I was married. A Fellowes.
2007-01-01 03:05:20 · update #1
Chemical castration usually curbs adulterous ways;
2007-01-01 02:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not something to be taken lightly for all the obvious reasons (in your vows you promise to love and honour ONLY your wife) and for the fact it is very very expensive to get out of, especially should your wife discover you have been adulterous she can take more from you than just an amicable divorce. You obviously weren't committed enough to your beau to have married in the first place and she's not the one for you if you cant keep your hands off others. Grow up, tell her the truth, and face the consequences. Get a divorce and let her get on with her life poor woman.
2007-01-08 04:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Giggle Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are fertile once a month, men can spend. You did it for the wrong reasons. Be upfront with your wife that is if you are man enough and take it from there. You don't want to be left for someone else-DON'T DO IT TO HER, it's not fair. If this is what you want then break the commitment thing sooner than later-later will cause more hurt and bitterness.
Remember, A Woman scorned.......
2007-01-07 03:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by datante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your wife know that you can't keep it zipped. Try some method of allowing her to track you. If that bothers you, then you don't want to be married. You want women AND the security of marrige.
Everytime you thing about it, stop and think about your wife with another man. (If that excites you then your sick.)
If you can't or don't think you will be true, then get an anulment before you get the hot poker of divorce up your a@@.
Just the same if she cheated on you. the worst people in this world are Murders, theives and liers.
You might even try some sort of dr perscribed kill pill rendering you inactive.
2007-01-01 02:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Computer Dr. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You got married for the wrong reasons - been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
I've tried my hardest to make it work - but a leopard doesn't change their spots - I can't make it.
I have now found Mr Right - it takes time - you know when you've found that special person - I can't tell you how - you will just know.
But it isn't fair on your wife - either try to make it work or let her move on and find someone special.
2007-01-06 02:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by lynnej1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and fate will no doubt sort your problem out for you. Probably your wife will find out and then you will discover what it is like to deeply hurt someone who you love, no doubt, in your way. You may well lose money, property, possessions etc.
If you can't be honest with your wife - why did you marry her? It seems a bit pointless to me.
You could arrange counselling and find out what drives you to cheat on your wife. I suppose they would say that you have low self esteem and try to raise it by persuading girl after girl to sleep with you.
2007-01-01 02:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not a cure to any disease I know.
It's a committment one takes to honour, respect, protect and love the one one chose as the most important thing in their lives.
So you married for all the wrong reasons and your poor wife is left to pick up the pieces.
Could that help to know that you've hurt someone who loves you; stamped on her feelings like dirt?
Wouldn't you agree that you should grow up or admit that possibly you still have a way to go.
I certainly have no sympathy for you.
2007-01-01 02:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive just got married and my husband has cheated on me while Im pregnant with his baby too. so i kind of know your situation from the other side. I reckon that if you can't stop cheating, it's cos you are not ready to settle down. So don't.
2007-01-01 11:10:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you couldn't manage fidelity before you married why on earth did you think you could do it after. you are obviously the type of person you enjoys having the freedom of being non committed. and you were wrong to hide your marriage from the others. you need to asses what you really want from your marriage and if you love your wife, i would suggest some counselling. good luck.
2007-01-05 03:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naughty, Naughty, Slapped Wrist's
2007-01-02 13:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋