Should I call her? all i do is think about her?

Question

we've been broke up for almost 3 weeks.....all i do is think about her.......i think she is talkin to some other guy.........i miss her so bad....should i call her?........she's on my mind 24/7.......i wake up during the night bc im dreaming of her.....tell me what to do...please no stupid answers......only ppl with a heart

Answer 1

I think you should call her and tell her how you feel (if you haven't already). When you call ask if you can see/meet her somewhere to talk, if you're still good friends this should be easy. If she refuses to see/meet you just tell her everything over the phone. But the key is to be honest and let her know exactly how you feel. Don't worry about your pride when your heart is on the line. Chances are, either she'll let you know she feels the same way still or she'll tell you she moved on. But at least you let her know how you feel and it makes it easier to move on. Just remember not to start sounding desperate if her feelings aren't like yours. Oh... and don't get upset and start yelling at her, just accept it.

Answer 2

Has she called you?

Sometimes when you break up with someone it does hurt for a while, and one of you will get over it easier than the other.

If you feel so strongly, talk to her, but if she feels that it is definately over, you can't make her return her feelings.

Believe me, you will learn from this experience and realise how silly you many have been.

Get your mates around have fun, take your mind off her if its over.

Find someone else, or enjoy being single.

Hope everything works out 4 u dude! x

Answer 3

Call her and tell her so.

Although be wary - you might just want what you can't have right now. 'Tis very common in this sort of situation. Think about why you want her back, make a list, even. (And if it's long and well-written, you could even show it to her.)

I could say alot more than this, but you're looking for people to tell you to do what you're already going to do anyway - so what would be the point in trying to discourage you?

Just be careful. :)

Answer 4

You think about her 24/7 u might as well call her

Answer 5

i wouldn't call her if i were you. you think she's talking to someone else already after 3 weeks. if you do call her she is not going to listen to you, she is going to shove it in your face that she is with someone else and you aren't, hahaha. and you don't need to hear that right now since you are hurting. and talking to her right now would just make you hurt more and miss her more later. i would wait a couple of months until you call her, it's going to hurt but it would be better for both of you.

Answer 6

I think you should let her know. call, send flowers, email, anything to get her attention. I thought my ex didn't care so I ended up getting married 3 months later. When he finally came around to calling me I was already married.

Answer 7

Flowers MAN. then call her the day she gets them. or you could "accidentaly" bump into her somewhere, however you run the risk there of seeing her with some other guy, and believe me you don't want that right now. tell her man. apologize if it was your fault.

Answer 8

call her. then tell her what you feel so that you could release this feeling inside of you.

if that doesnt work... try giving her flowers, chocolates.

always remember to tease her sometime so that you can have a nice conversation.

Answer 9

call her yesereee... tell her that you want a nice relationship even just the "friend stuff". then if you feel like she's again falling for you, it your chance.

Answer 10

Call her..... What's the worst that could happen???