did it work out? were they the one who dumped you? if so did you really forgive them?
2007-01-01 02:01:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have and no...I never went back.....good luck
2007-01-01 02:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty common with younger people or people that haven't had a lot of relationships.
That Phrase is more about is more about common sense. If they want to go, you don't want someone that doesn't want you. You should never try to keep someone with you. They should want to stay.
I've heard so many say that they are trying to keep them from making a bad decision, but if they don't want to be there, let them go and find someone else. We all find someone else better. Keeping someon is our own selfish desire to have someone and our fear if they leave, this somehow means that we are unworthy, have done something wrong or something else.
That is what love is. Coming back when they don't have to.
and no, it didn't work out. We broke up and she came back. I wouldn't go back, and God I found someone so much better.
2007-01-01 02:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by Computer Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i let him go, i was not smart to cut off all contact with him, his new gurlfriend was insecure, and hearing them together so happily made me all the more angry, sad , confused, he gave me mixed message, if you really love him, for god sake, just let go, for your sake, don't look back. This is the only advise i can give to everyone. I didn't forgive him, i was never angry with him at the 1st place, was angry with myself. Sad that i could not keep this relationship. Leave everything behind, start anew, this is what happened to me.
2007-01-01 02:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend in high school and we kept coming back to each other off and on over 15 yrs. then we got married, now divorced for the last 5 yrs. I'm glad that carnival ride is finally over.
good luck.
2007-01-01 02:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that "If you love somebody let them go.." thing is just utter crap. Sorry. But it is.
If you love somebody and you let them go, and they love you, they're just as likely to let you let them go as they are to come back. They can argue, "Well, I really love this person. If my being in their life isn't good for them, how can I stay?" etc.
If you love somebody enough to keep em, damn well keep em. Don't let them go. What's the point?
2007-01-01 02:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by dagorath1123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and hope he does cuz its not fair to keep someone emotionally attached when you know you're no good for them. I still care for him but I have tolearn to let him go for my sake. He mad his grave and now he has to lay in it. Hopefully he will learn from the mistakes. But right now I can't forgive.
2007-01-01 02:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went out w/ the same guy 5 times-- ok here we goo--
first time -- i dumped him for another guy
we became good friends after
second time-- he dumped me
i got mad at him and gave him a SERIOUSLY cold shoulder
third time-- i dumped him i cant remeber why
friends again
fourth time- he dumped me
i got mad
fifth time-- he dumped me AFTER ONE DAY and said- 'i just dont want you to break my heart again' ( he said that on aim.. how low)
now i givehim the cold shoulder-- because he blocked me-- uurg i have to settle this when we get back to school- its a problem 'cuz hes in my math, gym, art class, and hes on my bus-- roar
2007-01-01 02:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on, lied to and left. He moved it with the woman he cheated on me with and marreid her. He left me but is now calling me telling me he made a mistake, and that I didn't deserve what he did. I hear it in his voice that he wants to come back, and he's even said that he wants to come back. We'll see.
2007-01-01 02:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive had a bad marriage and everytime i let him go, he always wants to come back. after he screwed me. i always forgave him for screwing me. but i guess thats what you do when you really love someone
goodluck
2007-01-01 02:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant say as i have but my lady is a long way away so if she wanted to go she could --- she chooses to stay
2007-01-01 02:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋