2007-01-01 02:14:17 · 34 answers · asked by ricksdollsred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married three times the first two cheated and the last one I am still married to is starting to cheat. You aren't defective. I think we are unlucky in love and God is waiting to send us our soul mates but they are out there some where.
2007-01-01 02:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by ALEISIA B 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You either have bad taste in women, or you are to nice/mean.
What do women want? I Strong man that can listen to them while you tear a tree out of the ground.
Many men are excited by wild women, but that always bites you in the butt. They aren't any good unless you run them.
On the other hand, if you are to nice they loose respect for you and go elsewhere. This sounds to be the case. If you were a wife beater, you probably wouldn't be here asking.
Didn't you always wonder why women wanted the jerks in high school? Its because they were dangerous and they felt protected. Then they always leave them because they don't listen to them and aren't caring enough. You have to be a man of silk and steel.
Get a little psycho on them from time to time. Make them afraid if they cheat you will kill them both. (but don't really)
This sort of thing usually tuns a man into a spineless wreck that has no self esteem and is worried about his manhood. Just remember that cheating is ONLY a sign that they are a worthless whore and it wouldn't matter what you did. A decent women would dump you or divorce you. She would at least complain about what is wrong with you. (you don't have to twist their arm on that one.)
2007-01-01 02:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by Computer Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you just have picked defective mates. Cheating is never a good answer. Did the women give you a reason for cheating? A friend of mine, who has also been married twice....his ex told him that he was an awful comunicator and that is why she cheated. He left her and is working on his communication skills...he has since found a really nice girl and is trying to keep the lines of communication open....Good Luck!
2007-01-01 02:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You poor guy. I don't know why this would happen to you, but I doubt it's because you are defective. Probably just that certain women can pick the type of man who is easily conned. You are probably too easy going and nice. Don't worry, you'll find the right woman who appreciates you.
2007-01-01 02:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kesta♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u are not defective, quit blaming yourself for it. u may be guilty of choosing the wrong women, not getting to know them better before making that commitment. maybe you are picking women who are in love with themselves, who have no character or morals, maybe u are searching in all the wrong places. u may not be looking into their past, or seeing the true them before u marry them. maybe your not finding out what they seek in a relationship. it has very little to do with u, has to do with a defect within them, not a defect in u. maybe they don't want the same things as u do out of life. maybe u are choosing them for their beauty, and not looking into what's really inside of them.
2007-01-01 02:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both you and them. Cheating is a purely selfish act so that portion is their fault even if you have done things that make them not feel satisfied in some way they made the choice to cheat instead of resolving the problems through communication and persistence or ending it if the difference is irreconcilable (depending on what you may have done or not done.)
You may have poor taste in women (your fault) or you may just have bad luck(not your fault.)
2007-01-01 02:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by halfway 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm defective?
No you got them to marry you therefore you had to have had some persuasion skills.
But asking if you are defective is something that if you were my buddy I would personally have to pimp slap you for! That is negative boohoo I feel bad for myself BS and you know it.
Snap the **** out of it and get over it...
2007-01-02 03:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by jimmy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if your defective, But the marriages sure seems like they were, So pick up you chin & try sgain, hopefully with better luck next time, It's a new year maybe things will look up for all of US!
2007-01-01 02:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by wheelchair Mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that! Of course you're not defective. You keep choosing women that don't respect the vows of marriage. Keep searching ... you'll find the right girl.
2007-01-01 02:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely, you're choosing women, based on something other than love. Physical attraction is not enough to sustain a marriage. Re-evaluate your criteria for picking women.
2007-01-01 02:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋