I just found out the man I've been dating for several weeks still has a girlfriend. He told me they broke up, but I found out otherwise. I already broke it off with him but should I tell her, or just walk away and leave it alone?
2007-01-01 01:55:04 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are motivated by concern for her, then tell her,,,,,,, she very well may not know,,,,,,,,
2007-01-01 01:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by dlin333 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't owe anything either to him or to her. You have been used and the most important thing is for you to take care of yourself.
Will you be more at peace with yourself if you tell her? Or will it keep you from being able to (emotionally) walk away and start fresh?
2007-01-02 02:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by sophist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask yourself that question. What would make you feel better? And are you an honest person? Me, I'd go tell her because he would probably find another girl and still be cheating on her again. So, I let her know what type of a guy he is.
Good Luck!!
2007-01-01 10:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're honestly concerned for her then tell her. Do not tell her just to spite him or out of your anger over the situation. He will slip up and get busted on his own.
2007-01-01 10:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
She will do one of two things to you personally
1. She will thank you for letting her know
or
2. She will attack you
Unless you know her or how she will react, I would stop seeing him and let it alone
2007-01-01 10:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by AngelWings 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is walk away and leave it alone...Dont meddle in other lifes...
2007-01-01 10:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Bia S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
walk away and leave it alone.....not your issue any longer..just consider yourself well out of that mess...good luck
2007-01-01 09:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl leave that s*** alone if she doesn't know he's cheating by now she doesn't want to.
2007-01-01 10:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by T.T. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell her, she should understand, wouldn't you like to know if you were her.
2007-01-01 10:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her-- make it sound like he was totally lying to you and her the whole time-
2007-01-01 10:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bust his a s s
2007-01-01 09:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by got_shots 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋