Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

Hi,

I just want to share my story a bit,,........ i am in love with a girl who' has ditched more then 8 guys in a single year.

Now she is saying that she will be honest with me and live her entire life with me.................

But can a girl like this with horrible past of not sticking to a single guy for more then two months.....can she ever imagine of living her entire life with.......

Should i believe her honesty................... i am always in doubt and sometimes fear that this foxy lady is using me will leave me after a while.

But i don't want to leave her......am very much in love with her...........my life is in cross roads,.............

what should i do -------- belive her or leave her..............

2006-12-27 17:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 17:21:43 · 2 answers · asked by Ekjon O 1 in Friends

okay so im 14 and ive been with this same guy for the past 2 and a half years on and off. Hes always getting mad at me for things that i dont do and he has no trust in me. I always tell him that if i wanted to be with someone else i wouldnt be with him. So about a month ago he breaks up with me because he doesnt think that its "working" so now like its winter break and i wanna go out and have fun. So theres this kid whos 2 years older then me and kind of wants to be with me and i was with him last night and i hooked up with him. HES GORGEOUS! and i have a small thing for him but i couldnt live with it and i had to tell my guy for 2 years what happened.. and he actually cried and was so upset and was begging me for another chance and i had to tell him that i didnt know because of how many times he hurt me and for once last night i wasnt upset over him. But i kind of regret everything but then again i dont. Hes calling me tomorrow to hangout and talk. What should i do?

2006-12-27 17:21:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 17:20:31 · 5 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so there's this guy named Kyle who I really like. We've known each other for a little over a year, and we are on a team together and in debate club together and sit together in one of our classes, but he's a year above me. We are fairly good friends, he calls me when he needs advice that he can't go to his friends with, and I do the same with him. Whenever I'm sitting by myself at practice, he almost always comes and sits by me. The other day he bought me a DVD that I had said I wanted, and then later told me he never buys people stuff. The thing is, he had a girlfriend until recently, when he asked me if I thought he should break up with her, and I said no-- but he did anyway. One of my friends, a few months ago-- before he and I got really close-- asked him if he would hook up with me, and he said no... Are we just friends, or is there something more there?

2006-12-27 17:19:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok heres the deal me and my b/f are disagreeing on when i go to bed i stay up late i have my whole life i have a sleeping problem but he says his g/f should go to bed with him... i was like this when we got together
Should i have to change how i have been forever??

2006-12-27 17:19:14 · 13 answers · asked by SexyMandy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 17:19:13 · 9 answers · asked by raghu 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 now and i'm still scared of women especially the pretty ones. How do i help my self become confident around women? Help!!

2006-12-27 17:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Singles & Dating

I've tried to tease him with strawberries. Ive tied him up, put wipped cream all over him, blind folded him. What am I missing that he wont tell me. He tells me he loves me when Im teasing him but its not working anymore.

2006-12-27 17:18:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't told my mom yet that i coming home that soon, should i? and also what should i get my mom as a present?

2006-12-27 17:18:25 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

A weird guy at work likes me. He's been asking me to go to church with him. He hugged me and nobody else on Christmas Eve. Whenever I am near him, he stops whatever he is doing and just stares at me. Yesterday he put his arm thru mine and escorted me into the breakroom to talk to me. He tries to have long conversations with me. Today he asked me for my phone number. I didn't know what to say, I acted all stupid and said I still live with my parents and I didn't want anyone calling me there. I was trying to be nice but I really don't like it. I don't want to cause any trouble, what should I do?

2006-12-27 17:18:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with him for over six years. I realized I liked him as more than a friend a couple of years ago. I thought it might be just a crush, but lately I have realized it is not. I think I am ready for him to know, but am unsure of how to proceed. I don't want to come right out and say it. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I want so much more. What do I do?

2006-12-27 17:18:01 · 6 answers · asked by Heero 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I called //him// and told //him// how i felt about //him// then he hung up!!!!!!!
What should i doo!?

2006-12-27 17:17:48 · 18 answers · asked by KiKi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 17:17:14 · 3 answers · asked by Phin 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me out girls i did everthing rite then she says she is tired so am i but i still want some luvn

2006-12-27 17:17:09 · 4 answers · asked by LVTHEPLUMBER 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been basically homeless for the last 5 years at least. I put him up in my garage for 6 months 2 years ago. He's now back in town and still needs a place to stay. He can stay at the shelter most nights but I think he is on his last legs. He's about 40 I think and is very smart and from a rich family that fell apart, and is an alcoholic. He has been drinking less lately though. How can I steer hinm in the right direction to save his life. I should also ad that he is an atheist so God/Church is out.

2006-12-27 17:16:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are there any other girls out there who enjoy watching two guys fight? Or am I just weird that way?

oh yeah im me 2 if u want

2006-12-27 17:16:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been married to a marine for a little over a year... but we've only spent about 90 nonconsecuative days together bc of training for deployment and then the actual 6 month deployment. as most couples do post deployment, we got along for 2 weeks and started arguing. (we argued quite frequently before he deployed as well.) we always have made up... no matter how bad the fight.. and i admit to slapping him in the past. today though, he went as far as punching me in the leg (full force, leaving a painful welt) and he twisted my arm back threateing to break it if i touched him. (i had slapped him right before he punched me bc of the things he had said to me, and slapped him again after punching my thigh)... after trying to squeeze my hand tight to try to get the car keys from me, he stormed off to the store when i screamed out of pain. i called the cops and had him arressted for punching me.. he told the cops i slapped him and left out the part about him hitting me (go figure)...

2006-12-27 17:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by lucia 2 in Singles & Dating

A close friend of mine deciding to change his first name. Because his, well, has brought nothing but trouble since the first gulf war.

He will keep his surname.
He's been using the initails J.R. or R.J. for the past 16+ years, even though there was no actual name behind them!


What names do you suggest? J and R could be either the first or middle names.

2006-12-27 17:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

not very long ago i called one of my friends, recently moved to texas, and we had a really not so good conversation. he was talking about how he was popular(here he wasn't so popular) and how all the girls loved him, and about his new girl friend and junk that i really didn't care about. then he asked me if i had any recent bfs which i hadn't. then he made some smart @$$ remark that didn't really make me mad, just anoyed. then he said some thing about doing some 4 letter word to me(i can't remember the word but it didn't sound good) so i kinda made some dumb remark about not having a warm welcome when he came back for the summer. then he gave me the definition which was doing you now wat in a bed with me. i would never do any thing with him like that. then he started making fun of the fact that i couldnt get a bf. then he said he had to go, and i just hung up. did he become a selfish jock or am i just over reacting? and should i be mad?

2006-12-27 17:15:54 · 4 answers · asked by alien 3 in Friends

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2006-12-27 17:13:28 · 4 answers · asked by popstar lee 1 in Friends

Why the rush ? Why not allow himself respectable transition time first, time for reflection, divorce, . . . then date ? Why would a man think a single woman would want to be around a man who is transitioning through a divorce ? If it's just for the company to help himself through the divorce, is'nt that selfish ? Really wondering.

2006-12-27 17:13:27 · 10 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend that I grew up with shot himself a couple of weeks ago. No one knows why...but he wanted it more than anything it seems. It has only recently began to sink in. The holiday spirt isn't that happy or merry. Knowing that he won't open any presents or the thought that he won't eat saurkrat on new years with me sucks.
I remember the night that I found out, what a horrible time. That whole day was perfect, and hearing that killed me inside. I know how it happened, the details aren't important though. The rumors at school are becoming outrageous, stupid for that matter. There is nothing that I can do becuase no one knows how they started.
I am not looking for simpathy or an answer for this question. I just need to tell the world what happened and maybe prevent others from the same fate.
No one will really know how much this has changed my like, and the way that I look at life for that matter. I just want every one to know that it isn't the way out.
Some advice would be nice!

2006-12-27 17:13:09 · 18 answers · asked by J-Bird 2 in Friends

ok, my best guy friend just confessed to me that he likes me by email. he said he was always scared to tell me. i have known him for a year and a half, and i had a crush on before, but then i thought he just liked me as a friend, so i kept it as that. now, he told me that he likes me, and he caught me off guard. he had told my friends before that he likes me just as a friend because they asked him if he liked me. i thought i had feelings for this other guy friend of mine, which i've known for a while now, but when my best friend confessed this to me, my feelings for my other guy friend aren't so secure. i don't know if this is normal, and i don't know what to do. how do i know if i like my best friend as more than a friend, or just as a friend? and how do i know if i like my best friend or the other friend more? i think im just confused. when i spend time with my best friend, i think i like him, but when i spend time with my other friend, then i think i like him. is that even possible?

2006-12-27 17:12:29 · 2 answers · asked by Gabs 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 17:10:50 · 20 answers · asked by tinkerbell lover 1 in Singles & Dating

He doesn't even know, i don't think...
but she works with me (i'm only a seasonal worker) and likes me, and wants to get to know me. We're going out in a few minutes...
Do you think there are any complications with her having a baby???

2006-12-27 17:10:43 · 17 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been married three months and my husband talks to women all the time on the phone and just says they are just friends but they discuss everything that is inappropriate.I have confronted him several times and he said he would not talk to them any more and he still does.I am fed up and I just want to leave now before it gets any worse what should I do?He has cheated in the past with just a friend and that's my main concern.He was so jealous when I had male friends so I cut them off so why can't he do the same if he loves me so much?And on top of that the sex is horrible I have never cheated and we have been together for six years and sex is only five minutes everytime and maybe ten if I get lucky.I have tried everything and I hate sex because of him.My friends say I'm a good woman for not cheating but I want the sex they are always bragging about.Please help!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-27 17:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by Unknown_1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for all of you ladies.... what do u look in a guy. be truthful cause i wish to fulfill these duties for my a girl that i like

2006-12-27 17:09:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 17:09:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have these friends who vowed to be married for life and now - getting divorced. I know the statistics are higher for people who are believers but it's absolutely pathetic. If you get a divorce that's like saying the gift God gave you wasn't good enough. Isn't it like turning your back on your faith? I know so many people who find another person to marry or are adulterous before divorce and they don't even blink an eye - but say they are believers. It ALWAYS seems like one person was committed and the other pushes for the divorce. I just don't get it. Whether it's 6 mos, 7 years or 20 - how can it be - if we're people who trust God - it doesn't go together to buy into the divorce is the answer philosophy does it? The situations I've seen happen - the marriage isn't even that bad - no abuse, neglect or serious crimes committed that could not be worked out in counseling - but one person - the one who divorces - refuses counseling and doesn't want to save the marriage. Help me understand

2006-12-27 17:09:19 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce