He doesn't even know, i don't think...
but she works with me (i'm only a seasonal worker) and likes me, and wants to get to know me. We're going out in a few minutes...
Do you think there are any complications with her having a baby???
2006-12-27 17:10:43 · 17 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well yes she has a very serious responsibility. The baby should be number 1 on her list. Working 8 hours a day and being away from the baby and sending the baby to a daycare or a sitter during the day means she needs to spend time in the evening with the child. So maybe go to her place and meet the baby and spend time there. If you are willing to share her with the baby it shouldn't be a problem. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-27 17:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are complications, that of any single parent with a child, no more, no less. Be prepared to change diapers and all the other stuff associated with a small child. The ex-boyfriend could become a problem if he want to assert his parental rights, but that is a legal issue best left to a lawyer. He does not automatically relinquish his rights as the biological father without some sort of action through the courts to remove his rights. She could go to the court to get a judgement for child support from the biological father, but again, this issue is best left to the actions of the court and the use of a lawyer.
I did this, almost exactly the same, but it was an ex-husband and the boy was 3 months old. Over 5 years, we dated for several years, lived together for a while a couple and then married, and then 10 years later, she decided she wanted out for some unknown reason and we separated and later divorced on more or less friendly terms. So, for 15 years, it worked for me. The ex-husband was a problem only in that he failed to pay child support. He never got involved after the boy was born, though he could have if he had wanted to. Her children became my children, but since we divorced (now, 10 years ago), she has since remarried and has cut them off from me. Sigh.
2006-12-28 01:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by rowlfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please if you are looking for a piece of meat then go hunt somewhere else otherwise be a nice friend. She has an 8 mth from ex and now she is throwing green sigbnals at you! Does somebody give her money for producing babies. I hope she is a responsible mother. If you do hit that street, make sure you use protection for the sake of the baby.
2006-12-28 01:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime there are children there are complications. If I were you I would just go out and have a good time. But, don't get too involved. Just be friends for a while...from a safe distance...and see how it goes. You need to watch how she cares for her child, the involvement of her x, etc...before you get to deeply involved. Give it a month or so of just observing.
2006-12-28 01:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by curvykim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look out. She must be fresh out of the relationship so TAKE IT SLOW.
It sucks for single mothers, like most people just run, but if you care about her you can see how it goes. Keep in mind you'll be daddy so decide if you want to do that. Take it slow and the answer will come to you as you get to know her better.
2006-12-28 01:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. That brings into play alot more than you might think. Now if you like her then you might end up being this kids father in more ways than one. Being biologicly related isn't everything. Teaching them how to tie a tie. It's the small stuff that counts the most.
I hope everything works out for you. =)
2006-12-28 01:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) It's not the baby you need to worry about. It's the boyfriend. Get some info out of her. Find out where you stand in this scenario and find out how she feels about her ex. (i.e. does she fear him, does she want him back,......you'll have to read between the lines on this one.
2) Do you want to be a daddy? Ask yourself this somewhat early in the relationship, like the 5th date. Because eventually, thats what it comes down to?
2006-12-28 01:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there would be any complications as long as you are aware of the responsibility. It's not like you have to be the father of the baby but it is part of your relationship with her!!!
2006-12-28 01:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are not responsible to help her with the baby if you are still with her!
2006-12-28 01:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by emo[babe]<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats all up to you. would you be willing to take on that responsibility? are you looking for anything serious? if not, go out tonight and have fun. don't think about being tied down.
2006-12-28 01:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋