ok heres the deal me and my b/f are disagreeing on when i go to bed i stay up late i have my whole life i have a sleeping problem but he says his g/f should go to bed with him... i was like this when we got together
Should i have to change how i have been forever??
2006-12-27 17:19:14 · 13 answers · asked by SexyMandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok heres the deal me and my b/f are disagreeing on when i go to bed i stay up late i have my whole life i have a sleeping problem but he says his g/f should go to bed with him... i was like this when we got together
Should i have to change how i have been forever??
well tho heres the key thing i have asked him to stay up later with me the nights he doesnt work like friday and he wont he has always went to bed earlier is what he says but he says if he wanted to sleep alone he would have never moved in with me let alone got a g/f which i thought was messed up if i comprise shouldnt he
i go to bed earlier all the time now a few nights i stay up til 1 or 2
and one time i slept in til 1 he didnt say anything til our fight tonight and i slept in the other day and he didnt say anything then
he wont comprise so should i ??
2006-12-27 17:31:47 · update #1
just to add this we are not ready to get married or even thinking of haven kids i'm 19 and we live with my mom and i have college in feb. so dont tell me to get marry
2006-12-27 17:37:21 · update #2
compromise-- go to bed early twice a week with him, and if he's not happy with that, he's way too controlling.
2006-12-27 17:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a much bigger relationship problem. If you are playing house with your boyfriend, it's time you two start thinking about getting married. Your sleeping arrangement will improve significantly if you and he head to the courthouse and get a marriage license, then over to the Justice of the Peace for a marriage certificate. You should do this before you two start sleeping with a third little person who would just love to have a mom and dad that are in a committed marriage while he/she grows up. Also, you can't image what marriage will do for the sleeping habits of you both.
2006-12-27 17:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Today it is go to bed, tommorrow it is dont wear that shirt
Controlling behavior starts slow and next thing you know, you are sitting on the couch explaining to a therapist.........
I SAY STAY UP AS LATE AS YOU WANT TO!
Even if you went to bed with him you would not be asleep.
What is his problem?
Sounds like a controlling jerk
2006-12-27 17:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop wearing pink shirts then he might have some credibility. Untill then you shoulde play your rap music late at night untill a huge fight breaks out. Since you are female you will naturally win and he will stay up later to go to bed when you do.
2006-12-27 17:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess that depends if it is makeing problems with your love life if not that there is no reason that you should have to go to bed when he does your not a child. if it is a he wants you there to fall asleep with than humor him and go to bed then get up when he is asleep.i have the same problem but it was affecting our love life so thats what i started doing. we have 3 kids so it is hard to make things work in the family like they should. so try it see if it works for you. good luck
2006-12-27 17:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here's my thoughts on this, not necessarily in order:
1) Me and my ex husband had totally different sleeping schedules. It tore me apart.
2) Would he change it for you?
3) If you really wanted to, you would.
Hope that helps in some way.
2006-12-27 17:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SexyMandy, don't change just for him. My gf knows that I am a night owl and she has accepted it. Maybe jump into bed with him for awhile until he falls asleep and then get up and do your own thing.
2006-12-27 17:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do the samething and bu b/f hates it to... i guess he got used to it... "you should change for no one because at the end he wont do nothing what you want for him to change...."so, be yourself if he trully loves you he will find a way to deal with it without making you feel bad..
2006-12-27 17:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a grown women and you can make your own decisions. Your boyfriend is not your daddy so do not let him tell you what to do.
2006-12-27 17:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better for you to go to bed earlier (healthier), and if you like him enough do it, if you dont like him enough stay up and watch t.v or whatever you do.
2006-12-27 17:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by jared l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋