18 and still scared of girls......................?

Question

I'm 18 now and i'm still scared of women especially the pretty ones. How do i help my self become confident around women? Help!!

Answer 1

Dont listen to these fools saying that you are gay, cuz if you were, you wouldnt be asking this question. N E Wayz, I am 18, and I have NEVER had a boyfriend. I am involved at my college as the Sports Editor of my paper, I run track and I work for a newspaper in Atlanta, so as you can see I'm busy. YOU NEED TO GET BUSY. By being on Yahoo answers, it shows you are not busy(and me having the time to answer your question this long lets me know im not busy enough) this will not only get your mind off of this, but it will get you more aquianted with girs because you are around them more, and not in a romantic sense. Get a job, work with girls when you are in groups in class, get involved with sports teams that let you see girls while they are working out, get a gym membership, and get girl platonic friends, this will help you break the ice with them. hope I helped

Answer 2

`Well, I think that it's not actually the pretty women or any women for that matter. I think it's just that you are scared of rejection, but it is not an uncommon thing, most people are scared of rejection or just don't like it. However, my theory is that you won't be over being scared of rejection until you try to ask out a women. Keep in mind that she may be scared and shy as well, so your not alone in this. So just put your best face forward, find that confidence that's hiding in you, and present it and you can't go wrong. Also beware that women can sometimes since your insecurities and that can be a big turn off..they like smooth and confident men. SO don't be scared, cause their just as scared as you..try and think of that every time you become scared, and that thought alone should make you feel at least a little bit better.

-Riley

Answer 3

Listen, "I'm" a woman, but if I were a guy, I would have some what of a fear too! Don't get me wrong, I like being a female, okay? But girls, women, today a lot of them are pushy,overbearing, and a lot of them insist on having their way. It's the truth! But there are also a lot of truly nice, reserved, intelligent ones who have no desire of scaring you away or intimidating you. So don't be intimidated into believing that you don't have a chance, okay? If you know of a female you think you might like to date, go ahead and ask her. Remember, whether you are shy or confident, there's no gaurantee that a girl "you" like, will like you in return. But you'll never know if you don't ask, okay? Good luck.

Answer 4

start with friends first and be comfortable around them
maybe then classmates at your school
and just remember it's not their looks that matters, but who they are on the inside
treat them like a guy, be casual, don't ask about personal things
make them laugh
and smile at them
you can do it
you can become self confident be just practicing
first go to a club and casually talk to people
and if things go wrong, it's alright!
you probably won't see them again
just try it =]

Answer 5

Well try working up your self confidence on the ugly ones. When you feel comfortable with them, start working your way up to the pretty ones.

Answer 6

I'm 41, and pretty girls are nothing to be afraid of. They want to be liked just the same as you and me.

Answer 7

dun worry u are not alone..=)
just make frens with some girls..start with the ugly/ok looking ones..then slowly build up ur confidence

Answer 8

Go for the average girl. She might not intimidate you so much

Answer 9

Hello Mr. Chronic...
Well itis quiet natural to have such a feeling...
well i dunno if i am a good advisor on tht.... But y not try talking to girls first before making any more...dont tell me u r scraed for tht!!!!!!!

just go say...Hey, I am , wud u like to be frends wimme????
wont hurt u....
TRY it.......

Answer 10

well....im a girl....hope u dont get scared..lol...but just over come ur fear...just talk to ur self in the inside and tell ur self "talk to her" "talk to her" and then just talk!!! its easy!!! Just dont be affraid!!