Okay, so there's this guy named Kyle who I really like. We've known each other for a little over a year, and we are on a team together and in debate club together and sit together in one of our classes, but he's a year above me. We are fairly good friends, he calls me when he needs advice that he can't go to his friends with, and I do the same with him. Whenever I'm sitting by myself at practice, he almost always comes and sits by me. The other day he bought me a DVD that I had said I wanted, and then later told me he never buys people stuff. The thing is, he had a girlfriend until recently, when he asked me if I thought he should break up with her, and I said no-- but he did anyway. One of my friends, a few months ago-- before he and I got really close-- asked him if he would hook up with me, and he said no... Are we just friends, or is there something more there?
2006-12-27 17:19:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sure sounds like he's interested in a relationship with you , you can be sure of that .
2006-12-27 17:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. i believe he does have feelings for you or else he wouldnt buy you stuff. i know buying stuff for a friend is common but not for him right? so that might be a hint to you. in addition, he even asked you whether he should break up with his gf not and eventually he did even you said no. So in one way or another, he wanted more conversation and spend more time with you i think. About his "no" to your friend question was like a few months back and now he is single and you both get a little closer than before so that no might not be valid anymore. Rem that people do change when times passes.In all, I think he hold a torch for you. All the best!
2006-12-28 01:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by star_dust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is tht the answers always with u.....
Is Kyle really having feelings towards u???...If he had...he wud have implemented his thots on Lusty Actions...atleast ONCE....
If you had such feelings towards him, you wud have wanted to have him do something rele good with u....did u ever feel so?????
Can u picture urself and Kyle married ever?
Will you be there forever for Him and will he be there for u???
Think...
If ur answers to these questions is positive then there is a good chance u both wud want to get into a relationship.....
If they are negetive to teh Lusty Feelings Question...You guys are very very very good friends...and y Kyle wud have bought u the DVD or y he wud have Broken up with the other girl was to make u feel u r important...He likes u as a very good friend.....
2006-12-28 01:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Turrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he's taken an interest you and cares about you. But--- Does he ever get playful or flirtatious? Or ask about how things are going when you're down? Is he ever concerned about you when things aren't going well? It seems from the whole phone/advice thing that he does have something for you, and you're giving him the same, you two respect it each other, so give him a shot if you want him but be careful.
2006-12-28 01:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by R Paige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there could be something more! He probably does have feelings for you but could be scared dating you will ruin everything if you break up. My partner and I used to be best friends at school, we knew each other so well we didn't want to ruin it by dating, so we dated other people - but those relationships never had any 'spark' and ended really quickly. Then one day we decided to stop kidding ourselves, we kissed and there was major 'SPARK' ... that was 14 years ago lol and that spark is still their today! Best wishes!
2006-12-28 01:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, your relationship with him sounds great. Maybe it's just a buildup of friendship before any romantic feelings. He seems to spend alot of his time with you and he his clearly has you on his mind alot; he bought you a cd and he calls you when he needs help. He trusts you and probably enjoys all the time he spends with you. I think you guys started out as friends and the more time you spend together the more you're bound to feel for eachother. Good luck! ^_^
2006-12-28 01:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by dreamertonks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you definitely have an attraction towards each other, but just be careful that you are not the rebound girl in this situation. Give him space, he as just broken up with is girlfriend, be his friend and see what happens, you may end up together in the future.
2006-12-28 01:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that there is feeling there but maybe not as much as you would like. your still young live and keep being friends for now, he may think that if you were to hook up then it would mess up your friendship which i agree that is can happen. keep your head up and be happy with what you have because think of how it would be if he wasnt around to talk to or sit with..
Good luck
2006-12-28 01:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a really good friend there...Don't give up, the best relationships blossom from friendships just like you described. The question is...do you want to risk losing a friend when this friendship develops into something more?
2006-12-28 01:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by MARY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say there's a little more there. He might of felt like he was put on the spot by your friend asking him that. Just ask him out and see what happens.
2006-12-28 01:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by GUITARZAN30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you but is still testing the waters if you're worth asking to be his girlfriend.
Just don't get your hopes too high though or he might find you too needy.
Just stay as you are...
2006-12-28 01:37:04 · answer #11 · answered by noel4037 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋