Hi,
I just want to share my story a bit,,........ i am in love with a girl who' has ditched more then 8 guys in a single year.
Now she is saying that she will be honest with me and live her entire life with me.................
But can a girl like this with horrible past of not sticking to a single guy for more then two months.....can she ever imagine of living her entire life with.......
Should i believe her honesty................... i am always in doubt and sometimes fear that this foxy lady is using me will leave me after a while.
But i don't want to leave her......am very much in love with her...........my life is in cross roads,.............
what should i do -------- belive her or leave her..............
2006-12-27 17:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
believe her
sometimes it takes alot of people to find the right one. Hey if she never left them she would have never been able to find you.
here is a quote I live by
"You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take"
Go For It!
Good Luck congrats on having someone love you take you love back!
2006-12-27 17:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately she has a track history of hitting it, getting it, quittting it, and then forgetting it...
I doubt that time will be any different. She seems to be the one with the issue of being a committment phobic and that's something that'll take a lot of time to recover from. For her to switch it off that easily is a sign that she's not ready to have a stable solid relationship...
If you value yourself & your heart you should table this relationship and IF after some time of alone time for her (more than 20 minutes... haha sorry... had to throw it in there) then perhaps you both can revisit a possible exclusive long term relationship.
Until then... Don't get your hopes up because you'll only set yourself up for heartache...
2006-12-27 17:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by I wanna have a midget :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What would you do if you are sunken neck deep in water. Will you let the water decide your fate or will you try to get out and save your life?
Also think about the 8 other ones and by now she is professional in weaving men around her fingers...so do your math.
But if you sincerely do love her and want to give her a chance then it is also nice and something worth doing.
2006-12-27 17:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'll be friggin' honest with you...a girl with a background of ditching 8 guys in just a year doesn't sound too promising for you.
You better avoid her like a leper or else you'll be ditched guy #9.
2006-12-27 17:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN LIKE HELL!!!! Once a user, always a user. She's gonna dump just like she did with the other (is it eight or nine?) guys. She is just a cheap tart out for a fling (a guy per month). Do not allow yourself to be dragged into the bandwagon and end up a statistic like the others....
2006-12-27 17:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she ain't gonna change here ways. just because you think your special and she trueloves you. i know from her perspective. she thinks she loves you but gets bored or wants better. but what comes around goes around. she have some one she truly loves leave he after a short amount of time and be heart broken. then she'll learn her lesson. you need to dump that b*tch be for she leaves you!
2006-12-27 17:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by lacrishia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your still young look elsewhere, if your ugly and desperate she'll walk all over you eventually. Don't buy her anything expensive that way when she dumps you you won't think about her,lol
2006-12-27 17:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by gunnyhoney1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-12-27 17:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by cool grl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait it out, have her prove herself. If she is very good looking and your aren't so good to look at.... then worry.
If you also have a lot of money.... really worry.
2006-12-27 17:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
have you tried tylenol pm take alot of it.
2006-12-27 17:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋