Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

I work with a guy i like (dont tell me i shouldnt get involved...part time job, its allowed, work in different parts of the store) A couple weeks ago he'd always go out of his way to talk to me and ask me when I work next, joke around with me and now not so much. I mean I'm really shy. do you think its possible he thought I was interested or was never interested at all. If this was a guy I didnt work with I'd come out and just tell him I like him. If you think I he might like me, how do I make it obvious I like him. Guys, answer please and tell me how you can tell a girl is interested. Im so confused with this guy.

2006-12-26 14:34:36 · 5 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

and lived in a trailor but dressed nice and had a somewhat crazy family and I was unsure about how I should treat a girl based on the way some had reacted in the past or would none of this matter if you were truly in love with this kind of guy?

2006-12-26 14:34:19 · 4 answers · asked by norman d 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been told a have a great phone voice, but anyway I was talking to this girl on the phone and I called her name slowy she said dont do that I didnt no why so of course I did it again and again come to find out it made her have an orgasm I said nothing dirty just called her name. Is this real have this ever happened to you?

2006-12-26 14:34:02 · 19 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2 in Singles & Dating

I lent my brother 500 dollars, he said he needed it because his car broke down, and at the time did not have the money.

It's just us two in our own house, and since we both work, I was confident he would be able to pay me back.

I let him know from the start I needed it back ASAP, as we both spilt the bills.

I later found out that he used it for illegal purposes.

I need this money back, and do not want to take him to a court because he is my brother, and he also used the money illegally, and do not want him or myself to go to jail..how can I get it back?

2006-12-26 14:33:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really need your advice just on dating in general.I'm in HS and it seems like all my friends are having a ball dating,hooking-up,etc.And i'm like in the back hanging.I don't have many friends who are girls,and the few that I do I either: A)Dont like B)Are dating other people.I dont think I'm ugly...actually alot of people think I'm cute and nice....but like a recent example I had a girl tell me I was cute but she would never date me...wtf?...is this about me not finding the right person yet or what?I'm really puzzled.

There is one girl I like who is single...yet she doesnt have any of my classes and I only know her somewhat through a after school club once everyweek.She also can not date.(Well just not yet)

Thanks in advance guys.

2006-12-26 14:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by Jeff 2 in Singles & Dating

a friend told me that she needed space when she found out that i liked her more than a friend. she said she didn't feel the same. after this, i asked if we could stay friends. she said that it's a bit weird now so she doesn't want to be friends anymore. we lost contact after this.

we hung out and talked a lot b4. we were good friends. but she gave clear hints that she liked me... (i think). she said that she'd rather go with me to her school dance than her current date, whom she asked herself to go with her. this is just one...

we haven't talked or seen each other for a bit over a month now.i was nearly getting over her. then... she emails me "HAPPY B-DAY!!!!" from her vacation a few mins after midnight on my b-day. she also mentioned how she was, very briefly.

by doing this what do u guys think she wants? to accept my "just friends" offer or did she realise something more?

i'm scared of asking her because it might just become much worse than last time.

2006-12-26 14:33:35 · 2 answers · asked by friendlyguy 1 in Friends

whats it mean when you saw a picture of a guy that goes to school with you that you've never seen before and you know you like him! then when you met him you fall in love!! and after 2 yrs i still love him but we never dated! are we ment to be or not?
he shows me all kinds of hints that he likes me like hes always lookin into my eyes and staring at me and just always finding away to touch me or get mt attention!! so what do yall think?

2006-12-26 14:33:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at the mall with my fiancee / girlfriend and she wanted to buy a hat that said (I Support single moms) and it had a picture of a stripper on a pole.
I told her she would be viewed as sinlge, is that what u want, she said she didnt give a crap what i think she wanted it cause her mom is a single mom. I am 32 and she is 22. I think she doesnt want to miss out her 20's and she wants to be desired. I think she should grow up and be a responsible dedicated fiancee and show me respect , what do u think

2006-12-26 14:32:12 · 15 answers · asked by Bob C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-26 14:30:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you thought you were in love with someone but they were in Iraq, would you tell them anyways because they may never come back? Or would you keep it to yourself and just wait to see if anything happened between the two of you when he came back?
We're not dating, but everytime I think about being with another man or even try to date another guy, I just can't imagine him not being apart of my life.

2006-12-26 14:30:03 · 16 answers · asked by *Ms Manners* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 14:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by sicilygirlbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

if you have had more tops list the first letter if less than 3 ok...if none thats ok tooooo!

2006-12-26 14:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Friends

2006-12-26 14:28:47 · 15 answers · asked by gettin it 3 in Friends

I change the guy and yet he's the same just a different package. I change what I look for: environment, qualities, character... strengths. He always ends up being a woman hating momma's boy... needing constant attention and has definite control issues. Not to mention it seems to be getting worse. Where they used to try to control me with position and money they now try to make themselves indispensible and need my money... I moved away from guys with money because I felt they where trying to buy me. Guys without money, but aren't lazy are very smart and try to take mine and try to control me through obligation and responsibility.
I'm kinda of an old fashion girl in ways but not all ways. decent looking, good job, not much else... as I am rebuilding. However, I seem to always find the guy who ultimatly says without me... do you remember where you where before me? Yeah! I wish I was back there. And return to being single at that point. How do I find just a mister nice...

2006-12-26 14:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by Meela 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 14:28:35 · 2 answers · asked by josie 2 in Singles & Dating

i live in ok and we do have the child support enforcement division but i want to be able to help find him to speed up the process. intelius doesn't have his current address. what else can i do?

2006-12-26 14:28:22 · 7 answers · asked by living_dead_sandra 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What does this mean??

2006-12-26 14:28:12 · 9 answers · asked by violet83 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 14:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by blueigurl34 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its been over 15 years since she dumped me......

She really loved me too and I was a fool and treated her bad and she finally dumped me.

She moved on with her life , got married and had 3 kids...

I moved on and became successful in my work but never married or kids......

Why is she on my mind so much? I wonder if she thinks about me.....probably not......I just need to close that chapter of my life once and for all.. BUt I do believe I really missed an opportunity of my life by losing her.....

2006-12-26 14:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I remember...About 2 monthes ago...My step-dad and my step-brother...Were all getting drunk and I was too drunk to even walk so I went to go take a bath until I sobered up a little bit, and my step-dad was still getting drunk...But when I was about to take a bath I heard my step-brother coughing and I thought he was maybe puking and was choking on it so I quick went into his room to see if he was alright, and he freaked out and said please lay by me and I figured, it was my step-brother he always treats me like I'm his real blood sister and then when I was laying by him for a few minutes...he turned over and put his tongue in my mouth and I said,
"what are you doing?!? Are you drunk?!?" then I pushed him away and went to go get up and leave, bcuz it freaked me out and then he got on top of me and Fingered me me and started rubbing on my boobs, then I got up and went to the bathroom and tried cutting my wrists open bcuz I didn't wanna deal with what had just happened to me.

2006-12-26 14:27:29 · 15 answers · asked by MissSixventies 1 in Family

and another question.


I was talking to my friend and said "hey whats up" then she goes "who are you??" and starts to say "i hate mexicans..im serious..go away now". This really pissed me off and she said "im just playin." Ok why would you play around like that? You really dont know whether a person is playing around or not until they say just kidding. Would you take that seriously?

2006-12-26 14:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known him for over a year, but we just started talking in the fall.

We're pretty close now, and I feel like we have a connection that is deeper than friendship.

I've had feelings for him for quite some time now, but I dont know if he feels the same way. My friends think so, but I'm not so sure.

When we're together:

-we playfully kick each others chairs, throw papers at each other, etc at work
-our eyes meet, and we'll hold the gaze for a period of time, then smile and look away
-we sit close to each other
-hug each other goodbye

When we hand things to each other, the touch lingers for awhile, before either of us pull away. We talk online everynight, or else we both think it's been such a long time since we've talked. He starts the conversations.

He always drives me, even if it's out of his way. He always drops me off last, so we're alone. Last night, as I hugged him goodbye, he kissed my cheek. I dont know if he likes me or not.

2006-12-26 14:26:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I'm bothering her now. I mean she hasn't been trying to keep in touch over our chistmas break. I told her that I have a birthday/christmas gift for her and she thanked me... but other than that, that is all the conversation that we have had. I can't get her outta my system and I don't want to. I'm just tempted to tell her via myspace; that I like her (again) and I want to have something with her. But I don't want to smurther her, especially if she doesn't feel the same way as I do. What should I do? I know I should wait, but I'm impatient and I don't want someone else to steal her heart from me. I really need some much needed advice. I don't even know how to stop thinking about her and it's killing me.

2006-12-26 14:26:17 · 25 answers · asked by LQVE 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i broke up a month ago and we have been going out for a year. He still calls me and wants me and use to call me like 200 times a day(not exaggerating). I did not want him and honeslty felt that he wasnt the one for me. I wanted my soulmate because i knew it wasnt him. Yesterday he finally got over me and now he is t alking to some girl at his job. When he told me this for some reason it made me cry. He tells me all these things about here and for some reason i dont want him to be with her. But i hated it when he was calling me all the time? Whats wrong with me? I never thought he would get over me so fast!! Or maybe i just realized that its finally over?? Help!!!

2006-12-26 14:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wake her up and remind her santa has already been or let her keep calling santa in her dream so she thinks christmas isn't over yet?????

2006-12-26 14:25:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there are a lot of guys out there that i have trouble talking to but sometimes i just want to talk to them as a friend but i am afraid

2006-12-26 14:25:29 · 2 answers · asked by fleo 3 in Singles & Dating

i seen this guy everyday and i finally got the nerves to say something we been talking for a lil over a month he seem real nice i like him from what i know but is it to soon to ask about a relationship or should i just chill

2006-12-26 14:24:53 · 14 answers · asked by lil lady 2 in Singles & Dating

I really don't want close friends. I don't want to be friends with people to a point where they know everything about me and can make fun of me. Maybe some acquaintances to do things with occasionaly but I don't want them to know much about me.

2006-12-26 14:23:57 · 42 answers · asked by bubu9876542 1 in Friends

what to do when you love a girl and she likes you but she doesnt wanna hurt another guy that likes her so she wont say yes when you ask her out.........i really truly am in love with her......what should i do?

2006-12-26 14:23:16 · 3 answers · asked by dfhfdh d 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I met this person at work (it was a seasonal job). A few days pass and, out of the blue, the boss says I should ask her out. So I give it a shot, and she says, "I don't want things to be weird between us, but I just got out of a 2 year relationship and am not looking to get in another one right now." I then proceeded to get her number, and since then, we have kept in contact via text-messaging.

The other co-workers and the boss-lady herself assure me she likes me, but I dunno what to do. Her mom, who also worked with us, even offered assistance suggesting that she is shy and I should just continue to call her and text her every so often. I have yet to call her, but I really want to give it a second shot and merely do something even casual just to be in her very presence enjoying her company. I just need help figuring out what to say; I don't want to come off as some desperate or even annoying stranger she met at work.

2006-12-26 14:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by RobbyRob0 1 in Singles & Dating