If you thought you were in love with someone but they were in Iraq, would you tell them anyways because they may never come back? Or would you keep it to yourself and just wait to see if anything happened between the two of you when he came back?
We're not dating, but everytime I think about being with another man or even try to date another guy, I just can't imagine him not being apart of my life.
2006-12-26 14:30:03 · 16 answers · asked by *Ms Manners* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him, tell him. It shouldnt matter where he is at. If you truly care of this man, tell him. It would probably make his day alittle better to know that he has someone back home to loves him. Never keep your feelings bottled up...because in the long run, thats what will hurt you.
2006-12-26 14:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you really do love this guy, hell yeah, tell him now, besides its a damn good reason to come home alive. Theres no love like an absent love. Write him and let him know how you feel, hopefully he feels the same.
2006-12-26 22:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
t would be nice to hear for a solider but if it isn't real and comes back and finds out......that would suck. Being with another man? Is he Bi? If you love him why not? It will get him through the day and come back "I got a girl who loves me at home!"
2006-12-26 22:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes absolutely no doubt if you love him and he never comes back who knows how you would feel and wonder if he was still alive and came back and you have another man wonder what it was like if you had told him so yes you should tell him.
2006-12-26 22:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him. I mean if you wait who knows he might not come back and you'll hate yourself for not telling him sooner. Tell him as soon as you can and get it over with and if it doesn't work out you can move on from there. HAPPY HOLIDAYS ! =)
2006-12-26 22:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks 2 be u.
Cannot talk to him in IRAQ
SHOULD OF TOLD HIM BE4
move on 2 someone else
2006-12-26 22:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by VbyKM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honesty is the best policy in any relationship.
If he feels differently, you still have a very special friend and he better understands that you are there for him regardless.
2006-12-26 22:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think you should tell him because if anything did happen to him at least he would tell you how he felt about you or die knowing! Well, good luck hope i helped.
2006-12-26 22:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sexayy Ladieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write to him or get in touch with him some way and tell him that you care for him.save the I love until he gets back.
2006-12-26 22:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have a girlfriend. Yeah.
He must be unbelievably lonely. If is much easier to be over there if you think there is someone over here who cares about you.
2006-12-26 22:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋