I feel like I'm bothering her now. I mean she hasn't been trying to keep in touch over our chistmas break. I told her that I have a birthday/christmas gift for her and she thanked me... but other than that, that is all the conversation that we have had. I can't get her outta my system and I don't want to. I'm just tempted to tell her via myspace; that I like her (again) and I want to have something with her. But I don't want to smurther her, especially if she doesn't feel the same way as I do. What should I do? I know I should wait, but I'm impatient and I don't want someone else to steal her heart from me. I really need some much needed advice. I don't even know how to stop thinking about her and it's killing me.
2006-12-26 14:26:17 · 25 answers · asked by LQVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either she does not feel the same way or she is still in love with her ex and cannot think about anyone else right now. She already knows how you feel and if you keep pushing the matter you will appear like a stalker to her. You can either wait and see if she comes around to you......or........you can be flat out straight with her and tell her that you still would like to date her and ask her to be completely honest with you as to whether there is a chance. Really....I am as impatient as you are and I would just have to know the bottom line and deal with it whatever the outcome. Post again and let us know what happens!!!!!!!
2006-12-26 14:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...are you sure you're not being 'obsessive' over this girl? You might want to do some thinking over other options, in case this doesn't work out the way you want it to. In the long run, if you haven't talked to this girl, and let her know how you feel, then you need to do so, because she can't read your mind, and she may not know how you REALLY feel about her, if you're not telling her. The best thing to do is to just get it out into the open, and hope that she feels the same way. Otherwise, you'll have to learn to accept the fact that she may not feel as strongly towards you as you do, towards her, and the only way you'll know, for real, is if you talk to her.
I wouldn't do the 'online' thing, though. I'd talk to her face to face, so that she knows you're serious about what you're saying and you can read her body language, as well as hear it, right from her, on how she feels towards you.
Don't get your hopes up, though, man. You may be in for a surprise, whether it's good or bad. Just know that there are other girls out there, and you may not even be trying to get to know anyone else, out there, other than this girl your obsessing over. Just take your time, and let things happen the way they're supposed to. You need to find something, other than trying to win this girl over, and find it fast! Hang out with your friends, or work extra hours, or just do things that will distract you from her, until you can get some solid answers from her.
2006-12-26 14:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 16:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. However, if she felt the same way you two would be together right now. Sometimes people don't end up together because they have met someone else. It will take some time for you to get your system cleaned out, but in the meantime, keep your eyes open. You are about to meet the woman of your dreams..for real!
2006-12-26 14:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! well i'm a girl, and not too long ago i had the same problem as you with a guy at my school. If you've talked about a relationship with her before, and you know she's interested, then just take a second to breathe and know that she does like you its just she's busy. If all you know about the both of you is that you like her, then you need to be straight forward and ask her. I know if a guy liked me i'd be more apt to like him back if he had confidence. Maybe suggest hanging out sometime, or a movie. Hope I helped!
2006-12-26 14:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by magicalmayhem_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the gift to a stranger then smoke a cigar and watch a John Wayne movie to show you how to act like a man.
There's nothing more unattractive than a guy who sits around whimpering about a woman. YIKES!
BTW, it isn't her job to keep up with you. It is up to the man to earn a woman's admiration.
It may sound old fashioned, but man/woman relationships really haven't changed over millions of years. Age-old rules apply here.
2006-12-26 14:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by kitchenchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already lost her heart, dude! Now she's avoiding you. You're in denial. Feel the pain of the loss, and do your grieving. The sooner the better. There's someone else out there for you, and you won't find her till you get over your hurt. We've all been there. Best of luck.
2006-12-26 14:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was truely crazy about you, she would find every way to contact you. I don't think she's that into you. However, it is always the best thing to let her know that you are really into her. You should have a talk with her regarding where the relationship is going.
If she really don't like you back, move on. Keep yourself busy with a hobby (sports, music, art, etc)
2006-12-26 14:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mixedbrunette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I'm sorry but you have got to face the facts!
She doesn't like you.
I know it hurts... but it's the truth. You have to stop this. No excuses! I know you probably love her... but she doesn't love you back. Ask another girl out and don't think about her allllll night! See how that goes. There are soo many fish in the sea!!
Look... i hate giving tough love, but it's needed. I hope you feel better soon!
Don't waste your time on someone who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
2006-12-26 14:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes well it sounds like this girl doesn't even like you the same way so why not chase someone that will like you back unless you love being rejected 24/7 !
2006-12-26 14:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋