Its been over 15 years since she dumped me......
She really loved me too and I was a fool and treated her bad and she finally dumped me.
She moved on with her life , got married and had 3 kids...
I moved on and became successful in my work but never married or kids......
Why is she on my mind so much? I wonder if she thinks about me.....probably not......I just need to close that chapter of my life once and for all.. BUt I do believe I really missed an opportunity of my life by losing her.....
2006-12-26 14:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're stuck in regret. You may have lost someone special when she broke up with you... but you have to learn the lesson from the experience and move forward all the wiser because of it. Don't get caught up in thinking that she was it for you and you've lost the one chance you had... because I don't believe that's the case. If the two of you were meant to be together you would be. I believe that just the right people come into our lives at just the right moment to help us to learn certain lessons. You just have to learn from this experience and let it go. If you continue to have difficulty doing so... talk to a counselor. They might better be able to help you process and release the experience so that you're not stuck thinking about 15 years ago rather than moving forward and living for today... and your bright future.
Best wishes.
2006-12-26 14:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweets, it happens.
i feel that same way except im not married. i loved this guy for about 4 years now, but we never went out. he told me he didnt like me and i was too young for him. Even with having a boyfriend, i still longed for that guy. So i decided to meet him face to face and talk things through. its natural not to forget the one u love. but boy do i feel so much better. i dont go on in life thinking what was wrong with me..i just look at it like a life experience.
U should talk things with her and find out her feelings and what not. Even if her answer is not what u want to hear, u may feel better and move on
2006-12-26 22:33:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its guilt or maybe since you've been thinkin about her soooooo much that yall should get together for coffe' if you still know were she is and stuff like that or you should try to find her and keep in touch
-livie the 1/2 emo kid
2006-12-26 22:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by livie the 1/2 emo kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many things in life are not forgetable.may be he was gifted with special type of romance.or he was good in making love.there are many things we dont forget in life
2006-12-27 04:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by kabbara m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think of her because it hurts you to realize you pushed away a good thing.
please move on hunny.. heartbreak happens.. live your life.
2006-12-26 22:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by k_whatev k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude
its been since 1991 geez get over her already please !!
2006-12-26 22:29:47 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋