My boyfriend and i broke up a month ago and we have been going out for a year. He still calls me and wants me and use to call me like 200 times a day(not exaggerating). I did not want him and honeslty felt that he wasnt the one for me. I wanted my soulmate because i knew it wasnt him. Yesterday he finally got over me and now he is t alking to some girl at his job. When he told me this for some reason it made me cry. He tells me all these things about here and for some reason i dont want him to be with her. But i hated it when he was calling me all the time? Whats wrong with me? I never thought he would get over me so fast!! Or maybe i just realized that its finally over?? Help!!!
2006-12-26 14:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh man! I totally went though a very similar situation, just not as extreme maybe. This guy used to call me NON STOP and I was sooo annoyed. Then about a month ago he got this new girlfriend and I got strangley jealous, not a lot though. I thought about it and even hung out with him again to see what was going on. I realized though that it wasn't really the fact that I missed him or needed to be with him but he was just such a jerk for rubbing it in my face. I dno't know how much your ex talks about this new girl but it's common sense that if someone you used to have feelings for is there you don't brag to them about new relationships because number 1, if any feelings were still there you are going to bring them up again and make the person feel terrible. Number 2, somewhere deep in your heart you may feel a little dissapointed that you guys didn't work out and now you are just wondering what is so amazing about this new girl that he is treating her so much better than you. What I did is be blunt with my ex and one day he kept quesitoning me about what to do about this new girl he "loved" so much. I told him flat out I didn't wanna talk about it, didn't want to be involved because of our past. It's just not something you talk about and I told him to tone it down he was going overboard. He is probably obsessing over this girl now and calling her...wonder how long they will last for lol. Anwayy, we are stil friends and I bet if you told your ex the same you can still remain friends but I think you would definitely know if you still had feelings, its more or less just a natural reaction 90% of the time however. Hope I helped and best of luck to you!
2006-12-26 14:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by citygurl8503 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are not unusual feelings and you will feel better in time. It's quite hurtful to see an "ex" with someone else even if you weren't happy with that person, especially when you had a year long relationship. Your feelings are stemmed from the fact the he has finally gotten over you (or is trying very hard to do so). He's made it known that he's ready to move on and so should you. Your sadness and tears are also because he has found someone and you haven't. Once you find someone you like and can start a relationship with, the sadness will dissipate. Don't worry. You'll find that someone who will sweep you off your feet and your tears will be a thing off the past!
2006-12-26 14:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Shellbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ur jelous thats all but ther is a cure. ok ask him if u can meet her if u have a good time with her u might lose ur jelousness but if u dont like her then try 2 find another guy that helps a lil pic up a hobby see movies go c a family member and just dont talk 2 him alot but still talk 2 him bside he might want 2 make u jelous. i hope that this helps 2 . throw a party and ask him 2 come with her hang oout with every1 ask ur friends 2 bring friends that u dont no about and just ask random people 2 come at work but ask ur boss if u have a job i dont no how old u r but ya u sound like ur 20 to 30 . i will pray 4 u and ur ex God bless
2006-12-26 14:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by ashley h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with him because you didn't want him. However that doesn't mean that you didn't thrive off the attention he gave you while he was trying to win you back. It's a bit of an ego boost knowing that a guy couldn't get over you. Now that he's moved on it's natural to feel a bit empty but you did the right thing. Stand by it, if you try to get him back you will regret it.
2006-12-26 14:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 16:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you know the feeling of sort of like protection from him and love then you want that feeling back. when he was calling you it probably bothered you because you were trying to get over him. now that he has another girl friend you may feel like he is "winning" in the "game" of life. you just want that feeling back., most likely. it is probably a combination of jealousy and that you still care about him. maybe not in a intimate relationship aspect but in the fact that you went out and know him as a friend.
2006-12-26 14:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you still have feelings for him and want him to like you?? Well thats how it seems. Or you can just tell him how you fell. Sorry if i didnt help i was stuck in the same situation! Good luck
2006-12-26 14:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sexayy Ladieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ia all extremely normal for more reasons then I could list... follow everyones advice... the first mistake was listening and taking his phone call. Cut him out... and move on don't look back.
2006-12-26 14:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Meela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop accepting his phone calls.
2. Stop inviting him to your house.
3. Stop letting him come over on his own.
4. Date some new guys and get over it.
2006-12-26 14:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Jeezuss Jan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your in love with him still so go for it it may not to late
2006-12-26 14:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋