Well I met this person at work (it was a seasonal job). A few days pass and, out of the blue, the boss says I should ask her out. So I give it a shot, and she says, "I don't want things to be weird between us, but I just got out of a 2 year relationship and am not looking to get in another one right now." I then proceeded to get her number, and since then, we have kept in contact via text-messaging.
The other co-workers and the boss-lady herself assure me she likes me, but I dunno what to do. Her mom, who also worked with us, even offered assistance suggesting that she is shy and I should just continue to call her and text her every so often. I have yet to call her, but I really want to give it a second shot and merely do something even casual just to be in her very presence enjoying her company. I just need help figuring out what to say; I don't want to come off as some desperate or even annoying stranger she met at work.
2006-12-26 14:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by RobbyRob0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Hey, how's it going? Yeah, we haven't seen each other for a while. Want to meet at [place] for [meal] some time soon and catch up?"
2006-12-26 14:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd give it a try. Just ask her if she wants to meet you for coffee and some stimulating conversation.
2006-12-26 22:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her out on a coffee date or something b/c then if she feels a connection, she 'll say yes to the big question :)
2006-12-26 22:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by hallie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something fun! Send her flowers! Maybe don't sign the card - she has to find out who - she will ask you if it was you - it will make her smile!
2006-12-26 22:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Slim Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it Dude......what have ya got to lose? You'll do fine...Good Luck!
2006-12-26 22:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋