Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

I'm 13. My mom thinks I'm to young to date. Before you either A) say HELL NO or B) close the screen, consider this:
dating at this age is not DATING. A boyfriend is someone you go to the school dance with, a guy who you have feelings for who makes you feel good around. There's a guy who I like who likes me back who I was with. My mom found out and completely flipped out. She says she loves me and is trying to protect me, but I feel like 13 is the right age to have the beginning of a relationship as to gain experience for when I'm older. So, honestly: is it all right to 'date' at 13?

2006-12-22 02:37:40 · 12 answers · asked by cowgirl91 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I dated in 8th grade...then I moved away and we broke up. I never fully got over him which I thought was weird because I was so young. We lost contact and dated a few other people...but then some of my old friends started telling me that he was always talking about me and not staying inlong relationships because he was comparing them to me and try to find me....We ended up getting back incontact and have now been dating for almost 2 years. We are both now 19. I am working as a temp right now and moving around to different businesses; and planning on getting my bachelors degrere next year. He has a great job as an aprentice where he is paid good AND they are sending him to school at the same time (he gets paid to go to school!) We are talking about getting married in the next year, but are afraid that we are too young, and people will look down on us...I have no doubt that I want to be with him the rest of my life. He is the best person I have ever known. Advice?

2006-12-22 02:37:38 · 11 answers · asked by I'minlovewiththeboy 2 in Singles & Dating

his name is CHRISTIAN and he will not stop bothering me in gym class

2006-12-22 02:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys do u really get offended if ur girl uses toys or fingers while ur having se)x? Or lets say that she was to scratch you with a finger nail and the next time u guys did it would u tell her not to use her fingers and if she did call her dirty?

2006-12-22 02:36:48 · 14 answers · asked by neverbeenhereb42006 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a wonderful man for nine months. My ex is extremely jealous and has devoted many hours to digging into my current bf's past. In the beginning he brought up an old car-pool personthat my bf supposedly had a relationship with and my bf and I decided that the past is just that and there was no sense in bringing it up or dwelling on it. But he never answered the question of if he was in a realtionship with this woman ( if he was, it would have meant he was cheating on his then-wife). It all died down until today, when my ex started leaving voicemails saying that he met another person who knew for a fact that my bf was involved in a serious relationship with this other woman while he was married. Should I bring it up again with my bf and demand an honest answer this time or should I let sleeping dogs lie and just ignore my psychotic ex?

2006-12-22 02:36:17 · 17 answers · asked by babe 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 02:36:06 · 21 answers · asked by lindsy l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Awhile ago i found out my dad was cheating on my mom and i finally told her. They have been married for 20 yrs! and she is acting like its not a big deal. she says they talked about it and things are okay. BUT I am the one who found out, heard the convos, read text messages and etc!! im so hurt and feel like i cant ever be the same with him again! is it wrong of me not to get him anything even though my mom and everyone else is??

2006-12-22 02:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Say you're proposed to and given the engagement ring, the stone one, then on your wedding day, you get the other one.. What order do the rings go in? I really don't even know if I just worded that right.. but, I am really confused about the order of how the rings go period.. engagement ring and then the wedding one.. how do they go on your finger?

2006-12-22 02:35:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i keep having these masive breakdowns everyday, since he got a new g/f...and now hes pissed at me to the point where he wont even look at me...and im so hurt...b/c i liked him sooooo much...and i still do...and mike says he still likes me...ive thought about it over and over...i dont understand how he could just jump from me to some other girl...his ex actually...i dont understand this....how do i fix this? i keep deciding every day to just talk to him...but then when i get to the point where im going to...all my words are lost...and i breakdown and cry again........

2006-12-22 02:35:16 · 4 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

He did not answer my calls when he's (bf)not in the mood to talk.
Did not get online when not in the mood to chat. Do i have to understand him even he always do this to me...or is it a sign that i have to let go????

I met him online...messenger and mobile r d only way 2 communicate with him:)

2006-12-22 02:34:42 · 22 answers · asked by anne 3 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-22 02:34:41 · 14 answers · asked by MrC 1 in Singles & Dating

We are wanting to get tattoos in Spanish that will say something how we feel for eachother. Nothing long or big especially. We would like to at least try to sum it up as best as we can for eachother. We don't have any tattoos, this will be our first, we are both nervous but we are willing to do this. We are so much in love and we both know we are so meant for eachother. We are very excited to get married, we talk about our wedding all the time, it's so wonderful. He's my all!

2006-12-22 02:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy asked me if i liked him i dont know what to say yes or no i use to like him but not any more he is easy going and kind what should i do i dont want to use him but if i say iyes i will use him he is really nice and sweet. HELP!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-22 02:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend gets upset and jealous when I find a celebrity attractive,or any girl for that matter, what can I do to make her less upset?

2006-12-22 02:33:09 · 4 answers · asked by reliccup 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there a way to tell if someone is married and when they where maried? Other than asking them or a ring?

2006-12-22 02:33:09 · 13 answers · asked by MrC 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 02:31:58 · 21 answers · asked by Patric 1 in Marriage & Divorce

will it always gonna hurt to see the person who turned you down be happy with someone else? this girl and i couldnt even hold a conversation but with this guy i saw her really getting along with him and she was happy...and its been 3 months since she turned me down, but why did it hurt? i hope this wont be forever...

2006-12-22 02:31:00 · 12 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

If he acts this way(see add'l details) is the what he said true??

2006-12-22 02:30:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should a woman be upset when her husband doesn't come straight home from work, but instead chooses to help a friend fix his car? He and this particular friend work together everyday. When he finally comes home he hardly has any energy for his girl because he has to get up so early for work. What's going on here? Should the woman be upset? (by the way, they have only been married for a month)

2006-12-22 02:30:26 · 25 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 02:29:39 · 21 answers · asked by Patric 1 in Weddings

been dating this lady for about 3 weeks and brought her an xmas present which is a perfume box set. It is one she likes. i have already given her the present but she is not opening it until xmas day. Is this a good present?

2006-12-22 02:29:21 · 25 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Singles & Dating

For example, a 40 year old dating a 16 or 21 year old

2006-12-22 02:28:10 · 34 answers · asked by Ady 2 in Singles & Dating

im in 10 grade and i just recently asked a question about what i should do about how ive liked this girl for a while now and ive talked to her and other things...ive hung out with her with one of my friends and one of hers before...and it seemed like she was a little interested in me

and recently ive asked her if shed like hang out or go to the mall with just me and i did that last weekend and the weekend before that and she said she had to do something which she really did have to...but just yesterday i wanted to ask one more time before i go on vacation next thursday if she would like to hang out next wednesday night and she said she doesnt know what shes doin yet.

so i was wondering what should i do now...and i know this sounds stupid but i really like her..and i dont know if i should ask her again sometime after vacation, maby ask her again about wednesday or just stop askin her or something

thank you
i appreciate any answers
if u can answer quick please...thanx

2006-12-22 02:26:58 · 16 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 02:26:51 · 18 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know why the wedding band (ring) is put on the fourth finger of the left hand? Is it true that there is a connection between it and the heart?
Kole

2006-12-22 02:26:36 · 9 answers · asked by kole2 3 in Weddings

2006-12-22 02:26:03 · 7 answers · asked by puzzled 2 in Singles & Dating

He's starting to fall for me and vice versa. What should I do? He wrote me a love letter with his views of the future and it includes me. What does this mean? He told me that he's falling for me. Should I let him know that I'm starting to fall for him too? The problem is he's from New Zealand and I'm from the Philippines. We are both too far from each other.

2006-12-22 02:25:12 · 15 answers · asked by phoenix 2 in Singles & Dating

married 11 years, two kids 4 and 7.
as of 2 years ago we enter counselling at which point wife makes me aware how despite my best efforts, parenting and support she has some kind of 'wall' up preventing her from loving me again.
We work on things (or so i thought), but 3 weeks ago i discover she's had a torrid affair with another married man with family. Discover they're planning to break up their families so they can be toegther.....guess that was the wall.
But i just can't understand how my wife just continues to see the bad in everything i do (all friends and family say im wonderful father and husband), and somehow sees only the good in what amounts to another two-timing cheat and habitual lyer whos willing to sacrifice his own family.
Doesnt she see what everyone else seems to see?

Just need to put some kind of logical spin on it so if any of you wives or ex-wives had affairs despite a good supportive family lfe, what made you do it? And did you regret it in the end?

2006-12-22 02:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by Kaboom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Please describe, in ur own words, no wikipedias or anything please, haha.
Thnx!.

2006-12-22 02:24:10 · 8 answers · asked by Golden 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 02:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by lost29626 1 in Singles & Dating