Can you help me guys??

Question

If he acts this way(see add'l details) is the what he said true??

I was sitting by my b/f of two years and he had his arms around me. His friend came up and asked him why he was mad at him. He then told my b/f that if they were friends he would forgive him and ditch me. My b/f got up and went over by his friend and said they would always be friends. His friend then was like "bros b4 ho's?" and he was like yea. I walked away and told my b/f to have fun with his "bros" b/c I am done. I then left him sitting there in shock.
I don't care about the whole "ho" thing because my friends and I call eachother bitches and hos sometimes when we see eachother in the hall.
Should I forgive him??
He says he is sorry. He says it was just so he wouldn't lose a close friend. He did run after my car for quite a while. Should I forgive him??

Should I give him a second chance?? He was a great b/f otherwise, he just pissed me off by saying bro's b4 ho's.

My bff would have never made me choose. His friend had just been dumped by his g/f and says he felt as tho everything was falling out from under him.

Should I forgive my b/f??

Answer 1

Guys say some dumb-*** stuff sometimes. He probably said it without thinking. I would have been angry too, but the fact that he ran after your car.....ya....forgive him

Answer 2

Look no guy should call any girl biches or ho's it shows disrespect. and you and your girlfriends doing it to eachother is promoting these guys to disrespect you. think one day when you grow up and have kids are you gonna like your kids shooting of their mouths or your husband swearing around them. Look your boyfriend obviously likes you to run after your car. I wouldn't want to loose a friend either so i would forgive him becase you over reacted to. he shouldn't have to make the choice between you or his best friend.

Answer 3

I think you should forgive him. He obviously cares about you and cares about your relationship very much (He even ran after your car!!). I think that he only said that so his friend wouldn't make such a big deal about you two. I say forgive him, I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt your feelings.

Answer 4

i think that if he said he was sorry he meant it. friends need to stay freinds no matter what the cause. if one of your friends came up and said the same thing i bet that he wouldn't of dumped you because of what you said so why do the opposite to him! i say give him a second chance.

Answer 5

i agree with you however you look at it it is not showing respect for you and besides i would MUCH rather be with and talk to a lady than a bunch of guys that have only sport as a topic of conversation

and no im not gay i just prefer the company of ladies to males

Answer 6

"Bros before hos?"
You call yourselves "hos"?
He ran after your car? Why did you not stop and speak with him?

You have extremely strange mating rituals.

Answer 7

i think he was jsut tryin to be a "man" infront of his friends. you know? like guys have inside jokes together... like u said u girls call each other bitches sometimes... well same for the guys. i dont think he meant anything by that. =]

Answer 8

no he ditched u and well i think that thats funny that he chased after ur car i would laugh and drive faster. but its ur call if u think that u should then do it if u dont think that u should dont but in my mind i think that every1 deseves a second chance

Answer 9

SOUNDS LIKE HE IS JUST A BIT IMMATURE...BUT PROBABLY REALLY DOES LOVE YOU. UNDERSTAND THAT HE WAS JUST TRYING TO PLEASE YOU BOTH.