2006-12-22 02:36:06 · 21 answers · asked by lindsy l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are scared of rejection. some girls are really mean when someone asks them out, so it makes guys a little scared to approach a girl. If there's a guy you like, ask him out
2006-12-22 02:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you women stomp our hearts into the dirt every chance you get.
Look between the ages of 15 and 21 I asked out, what, maybe 30 women? Only one ever said yes, in spite of me being "such a nice guy", the kind women always say "I wish my boyfriend was like you" etc.
After that many "no's" guys have no ego left. They just see women as heartless monsters who are only out for a guy who is best to show off to their friends.
Of course it is different now that I am older. I would do much better now I think because women are looking for the nice, responsible guy. I don't want to hear any 30-something women "boo hoo I can't find a nice guy" when they probably were inundated with them 10 years before and told them all to pi$$ off while they went and banged some jerk.
Oh yeah and by the way when the girl then tells OTHER people so they can make fun of you for even asking?
Nice....
Chandra can go rot. I'm sure she's long forgotten who I am, but I'll never forget what she did to humiliate me for having the nerve to ask her.
Now I'm going to have to tell my wife that story. Don't think she's ever heard it.
2006-12-22 02:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because of the big, awful word of no. No one likes to be rejected, especially men. The hardest thing for men is to start up a simple convo, but most times men dont know what to say to break the ice. Plus women if said to the wrong thing, access is denied! (meaning bases of conversation).
2006-12-22 02:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of rejection. but not all men are like that. Men, women...it doesn't make a difference. Men are just as scared of rejection as women are. It really depends on the individual. Maybe he is just really shy or waiting for the right time, who knows ( except himself of course).
2006-12-22 02:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lindsy, yes some men are scared but definitely NOT all of us guys. Any guy that's shy will be timid, nervous and be scared to ask a gurl out - got that? Cheers!
2006-12-22 02:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some men think they are big and tough but when it comes to women they are scared what the woman might say
2006-12-22 02:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by roc a wear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They get tired and beat down over the years of getting rejected or they are shy or they know how everything has to be just so perfect for a girl and anything we might say to mess it up will end in atrocities or we might not like you and your not as hot as you think you are or your so hot that we think your are out of our league....it could be bunches of reasons....just ask the guy that you think should ask you out. He might tell you his reason.
2006-12-22 02:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everyone not just men. It's the nerves that they get right before they talk to a girl that they really like that get them flustered. It's also the risk of being embarrassed and/or rejected.
2006-12-22 02:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
c'mon! Am I the only one that noticed the "y do men so scared"? That's the funniest use of the english language I've ever seen LMAO! No wonder she won't get asked out.
2006-12-22 02:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not a man, but, i think i can help. you may be brave, but get over it. not everyone is. i wont tell anyone who i like and my crush has asked me out so many times i lost count and turned him down. im just a coward, i hope u can get over urself enuf to see from other ppls point of view.
2006-12-22 02:39:11 · answer #10 · answered by jimboscow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋