im in 10 grade and i just recently asked a question about what i should do about how ive liked this girl for a while now and ive talked to her and other things...ive hung out with her with one of my friends and one of hers before...and it seemed like she was a little interested in me
and recently ive asked her if shed like hang out or go to the mall with just me and i did that last weekend and the weekend before that and she said she had to do something which she really did have to...but just yesterday i wanted to ask one more time before i go on vacation next thursday if she would like to hang out next wednesday night and she said she doesnt know what shes doin yet.
so i was wondering what should i do now...and i know this sounds stupid but i really like her..and i dont know if i should ask her again sometime after vacation, maby ask her again about wednesday or just stop askin her or something
thank you
i appreciate any answers
if u can answer quick please...thanx
2006-12-22 02:26:58 · 16 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to tell you the truth if she tell in you that she always got something to do then that mean she is no longer int rested in you may be you did some thing which turn her off so now she is no longer interested in you try and talk to her to see what wrong with her and what you did wrong and maybe you can fix it
2006-12-22 02:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by SUGA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, 10th grade is a little bit difficult. Well you've asked her a couple times and she was busy. Well what you got to loose? ask her about wednesday night. If you can't get anything out of her tell her you're going on vacation and when you return if she can make some time for you. Just dont let the asking too much make you seem crazy cause then she'll think you're just that, crazy.
2006-12-22 10:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do have a lot going on in their lives but if someone cares or likes you they make time for you. This is not always possible but most of the time it is. She may be nervous because she really likes you too. The only way to really know is to ask straight out if she would like to get to know you better. Some people need to do things with in their own time and can't be rushed. My advice is to buy her a little thought gift and wish her Merry Christmas tell her you would like to get to know her better and if she would like the same then the ball is in her court. Tell her when your going out of town and when your coming back and if she contacts you then you have your answer.
2006-12-22 10:45:17 · answer #3 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but i doubt she is as interested in you as you are in her.
If she was she would make time for you to go out one more time before vacation, and not make lame excuse answers.
Maybe she's playing hard to get but that is something you should be able to pick up on if it was the case.
Just be up front with her, let her know you are interested, but if she's not thats OK just to let you know the score. It might hurt, but at least you won't be wondering about it throughout vacation.
Just be classy, and don't put pressure on her, just try to solicite an anhoest answer, and don't get upset or appear to get upset over it if its not to your liking.
And you never know, maybe she'll turn around once she sees how classy you handle the situation.
2006-12-22 10:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kaboom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont want to seem like your desperate.(Not saying your are) But u dont want it to appear that way. Guys have the tendency to get annoying if they ask too much. It pushes girls away. Wait til after the vacation and then ask her. GOOD LUCK!! But keep in touch with her through out the vacation to let her know u are still there!!
2006-12-22 10:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by zackaryaha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she doesn't know what she's doing yet she may just be waiting to see if she has something better to do, using you as a back up plan -- I've given that answer and that was usually why -- hopefully she's nicer than me and may just be busy -- I would ask her one last time after vacation but once more would probably be it -- good luck
2006-12-22 10:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by Bakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her your phone number! Tell her that if she has a quiet moment, and wants to go do something, she can call you! Remind her that you have no plans at this stage, and would love to catch up over the break! That gives her the chance to call you if she wants to, if she likes you she will call to chat. Otherwise she could call you to do something if she is free, and not blowing you off! She will know then you like her, and it gives her the power to respond, without being put on the spot! Be patient, if it was supposed to be, believe that it will be!!! Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-22 10:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of caurse its not stupid!!! i've done the same thing! ask her again, dont stop asking till you get the girl!! she seems intrested so keep at her. go to a movie or something and get ice cream if she agrees to come. alls fair in love and war so when the war!!! ya i know that was lame but it gets the point across. hehe =)
2006-12-22 10:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep asking man! But, if starts the "no already okay!" then give it a rest for a month. Ask if she wants to put putor go carting. that's fun!
go to lovecalculator.com!
2006-12-22 10:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Swimmergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. I don't think she really likes you and instead of telling you she seems to just be stringing u along...maybe in hopes of not hurting your feelings
2006-12-22 10:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋