He did not answer my calls when he's (bf)not in the mood to talk.
Did not get online when not in the mood to chat. Do i have to understand him even he always do this to me...or is it a sign that i have to let go????
I met him online...messenger and mobile r d only way 2 communicate with him:)
2006-12-22 02:34:42 · 22 answers · asked by anne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships are hard to endure over a short period of time. I would imagine that having a relationship purely on the net and via mobile as being very difficult!
Why?
Not only are you unable to be with each other and go on dates etc. But.... The most important thing of all is...
COMMUNICATION.
Did you know that only 30% of communication is verbal (prob less than that sorry). Alot of communication is by body language (no I don't mean sex - I'm talking about facial expression - even the direction we look at can have a meaning - looking up (we could be thinking about something) - looking down (we could be avoiding communication).
I could go on and on but I won't.
The fact is that you won't have a fulfilling relationship only using messenger and mobile.
Good-luck!
2006-12-22 02:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, I think you are probably gonna have to let him go. It sounds to me like he may already be married and he has just been rumbled pursuing extra-curricular relationships by his wife, or it may be that you are not the only woman he is seeing online. If he's not gonna return your calls or chat to you online, you really don't have much of a relationship, do you? And you are not doing yourself any favours beating your head against a brick wall hoping for something that clearly isn't there in the first place.
Is this seriously the sort of behaviour you want to see from the prospective father to your future offspring? A relationship needs a two-way commitment between the partners: you're getting none from him, so knock it on the head before you drive yourself insane. You're worth far more than that.
I really don't think the internet is really the best way to meet your future spouse because long distance romantic relationships are notoriously difficult to maintain, since you don't get the same closeness that you do when you can actually see, smell and touch the person you are romantically involved with. You don't get any idea of their body language. You can, to a certain extent, try to convey this through the use of emoticons but you cannot convey honesty through this medium. You need honesty in a relationship and you can only see it in their eyes and hear it in their voice. Honesty doesn't really live on the printed page or the computer screen.
So I would seriously advise you to get out into the real world and socialise with real people you can see and touch in your local area. The internet is fine if all you wanna do is penpal with someone. A love relationship is much more involved than that and you need to be physically together if it is ever going to work out.
I sincerely hope you find what you're looking for soon. Good luck!
2006-12-22 11:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by colliedug111060 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should walk away from this guy, how are you going to change such a moody person if he doesn't communicate with you at times. U are a very attractive young woman plenty of fish out there go get them girl.
2006-12-22 11:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by William T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are much too pretty to be mistreated this way. You should find someone who gives you all the attention you need. Good Luck
2006-12-22 10:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think online romances work...but hey i'm old and set in my ways if the only way you can communicate with him is online and mobile i dont think its worth it
2006-12-22 17:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by jeff c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him how u feel and give him one last chance. if u get no joy then i`m sorry but ur better off moving on otherwise u`ll just keep getting upset. i hope that helps
2006-12-22 13:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by groundhog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks as though he is hinting to you,if he cannot be bothered why should you,it all one sided and it wot work out
2006-12-22 11:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by barnowl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on
2006-12-22 10:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by julia1975 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry girl he is avoiding you just let him go is better if you break up and dont let him think you begging him for attention you would found someone to love you one day****
2006-12-22 10:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if he's not in the mood...make it your business to be "not in the mood" when or if he calls you....if i were you i would forget him....seems he's a bit of a bore....
2006-12-22 11:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋