In March my daughter messed up. She's a very good girl, but, I couldn't understand why, joined a bad crowd and did some wrong stuff. She apologized but got punished anyway, I got very disappointed and it took me some time to trust her again. Much more than the punishment, this hurt her really bad, made her suffer a lot, to an extent I couldn't reallyn realize then. Now I think I really exaggerated, she was just an excellent girl that messed up. But she got extremely resentful, could never get over it. We had a wonderful relationship and it was destroyed. She says I didn't act like a mom, I couldn't understand she is human and may make mistakes like anyone else, and I submitted her to an emotional massacre. She left that crowd and today I trust her completely, but our relationship is destroyed, so resentful she is. And to makes things worse, a teacher she likes much helped her and now it seems my girl likes her teacher more than me.
2006-12-22
03:13:18
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Anabela
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