You meet this guy, dance..give him your number...Some call, some don't. What's the best "behaviour" a girl can have that will make a guy call... And how should you be on a first date so that you KNOW he'll call again?
2006-12-22 03:07:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the guy. I would call a new girl if I thought we could be intimate. It would help if you touched him, like on the arm or chest, looked him in the eye and smiled. That gets me!
2006-12-22 03:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing - don't "mac" on him. If you really like him, he'll know as you're dancing.
You mention you're at a bar. Most bars/dance clubs now have matchbooks or slips of paper for people to write down info to keep in touch. A lot of smiling and what they call 'knowing-grins' will let him know you're interested.
If you'd like to take advantage of the matchbook thing, there is at least one thing you might want to consider so he doesn't assume you're easy and would give your number to anybody... write on the matchbook cover, "For your eyes only..." and your first name (not your last) and whateer phone number you're most comfortable with him calling. Remember, we're not that bright when it comes to understanding your gender. You should expect calls at late hours, or early hours, and at the most inopportune moments. It's a biological clock we possess and it will always make us call you at whatever time you weren't expecting it. :-) Sorry, it's just how we're made.
Lastly, when you hand it to him, tell him - specifially (again, we're not that in tune with you all and would starve if it weren't for the Carl's Junior hamburgers - remember those commercials?)... so tell him, "Call me tomorrow after work." Or something like that. You get the idea.
Just remember that the thought that the guy might be able to develop something with you that will lead to physical intimacy is going to go a much longer distance than a lot of heavy petting or an easy woman who's available on the first or second date.
2006-12-22 03:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - never expect much out of a guy you meet at a club. You know NOTHING about them. They could be married, engaged, have girlfriends etc. You never know. Just take it for what it is - a good time. If they call and ask you out - good...go for it. But don't expect them to call just because you flirted your a s s off. There is no type of behavior that would make a guy call when he's not interested.
On a first date you should be yourself. Be polite, always offer to pay etc...but just be yourself. DON"T LIE and don't make up stories. :)
2006-12-22 03:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you give him your number, make sure he knows you interested. A nice look in the eyes...a nice kiss on the cheek. A nice kiss on the lips works wonders. How you are on the first date is up to both of you. It all depends on what you want. If you want sex, you'll get sex. If you want a relationship, don't give it up so easy. But just be yourself and show you're interested and you'll do ok.
2006-12-22 03:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't try to "be" anyway or act differently than yourself. You want a guy to like you for you, so don't put on an act or think you have to be a certain way. Just be YOU! If he doesn't call you back then it wasn't meant to be and that just means there is someone better out there for you.
2006-12-22 03:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by CarolinaGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will call you if you act all slutty and make them think they are going to get some. For my I have to feel like I click with the person, I wouldnt take their number if I didn't feel like I did.
2006-12-22 03:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by doctorslapnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meetin someone at the bar is never good...why? b/c there r so many factors that could change everything...maybe he was drunk?or maybe u were? i tried hookin up at the bar, it doesnt really work. best thing u can do is not dance like a slut w/ everyone and hope he sees the good in u...oh and dont be too drunk when u approach him haha.
2006-12-22 03:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a loser who just wanted a dance and a taste of u:
He'll col u when he thinks you can give him what he wants.
For a "not loser" who cared to not just dance but chat with you,listen:
after the party, when ur parting ways, and he turns back and says... "uhh..hmm...il col u?"
2006-12-22 03:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kolby S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, when you ever go to a club or bar, NEVER NEVER NEVER give out your phone number, take his! you have to run game otherwise you are leaving it to him to call all the shots! now look at you sitting by the phone waiting for that call. please! i dont want to hear you doing this again
2006-12-22 03:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him your cell phone number only. That way , if he gets too friendly too soon, and tells you he tried to call and could not get through, simply inform him that your fone is not on all day and night
2006-12-22 03:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋