Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

2006-12-22 03:50:45 · 1 answers · asked by dandon 2 in Friends

Recently a friend made a comment about me and my relationship with my ex-boyfriend in front of other people. I was there as well, she was not talking behind my back. I know that she didn't mean for the comment to hurt my feelings, but I really felt like she was belittling me. I didn't say anything to her at the time because I didn't want to make a bid deal about it in front of people that we didn't know very well, but it has been on my mind for a week now. I want to say something to her, but I am not sure the best way to go about it. I am worried that if I try to talk to her in person I may end up getting angry and having an argument that I don't want to have and escalate the bad feelings that I am having towards her. Do you think that it would be better to try to send her a card explaining my feelings, or should I try to talk to her in person and see what happens?

2006-12-22 03:49:30 · 17 answers · asked by vonbankrachel 2 in Friends

Shes been my friend since the 5th grade but this is just weird.what should i do....

2006-12-22 03:48:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

After 2 mounths of going back and forth w my ex we keep on talking to each other. I still love her. She says she doent want to think about us like that anymore and try and work things out. Last night i called her and i we kept talking till i sliped i was planig on proposing to her in june she was shocked. The whole thing ended up with both of us crying. Why would she cry she is the one that dumped me and i am the one pursuing this. All i want from her to think about all of this. I am stuck now cause why would she cry.

The relationship lasted 4 yrs and we both always talked about kids and marrige. The break up came from no where only that she felt no romantic connection. I always gave her my life i gave up parts of my life to be with her. I always told her how i felt and now this. Niether of us can stop calling one another. my only question is why would she cry over, if this is what she wants?

2006-12-22 03:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Singles & Dating

There is absolutly no way i can put my name on it, so don't suggest i do

2006-12-22 03:47:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 03:47:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Inside my chest beats the heart of a poet,
Though from the exterior you wouldn't know it.
To see life through my eyes with pen in hand,
Love slips through my fingers like grains of sand.

Now deeply scarred by life's many heartbreaks,
I think I've finally learned from my foolish mistakes:
What is seen by the eye may not be felt by the heart,
Not on my behalf, but on another's part.

Oh, but if it were the other way around,
And love given freely was found,
Easily winning someone's heart
Then it would have been better from the start.

Not to be seen at only face value,
But to be loved for some valiant virtue.
Clouds of doubt and fear and dread
Ran like wild horses through my head.

To think that someone so lovely and kind
Might've driven me to madness, out of my mind.
So, now I've been taught, and it's a lesson learned,
But from this no diploma or degree has been earned.

I had a good teacher, and she taught me well.
Nevermore shall I have poems to write for her, or tales to tell.

2006-12-22 03:46:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is overseas he is in the navy and i want to send him something for his birthday jan 1st he will be 21 and i dont know what to send him???? Please can yall give me some ideas. He told me to mail him me...... lol

2006-12-22 03:45:55 · 10 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 03:45:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

asleep. His back was towards me and I scooted over to try and spoon him and put my arm around his body, around the ribs and he pushed my hand away. Not gentle put kind of jerked it away. Then like 2 hours later, I tried again because that is what I sometimes do and he did it again. I then asked him why he did that and he said that he did not mean to. He said that he was asleep and not aware he was doing this. Does this mean anything?

2006-12-22 03:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by DDee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll be honest. Love and marriage go hand in hand. And I definitely want to be married to a man that I love. But I don't think that both are quintessential to the other (romantic love and marriage, at least). I believe that the institution of marriage is about a commitment to a partnership, even a religious one, that although ideally contains romantic love, does not need it to survive.

Besides, especially these days where that commitment isn't as seriously taken as it was, how many people have been fooled by their notion of love? Arranged marriages, on the other hand, are mostly based on a mutual understanding that they're obliged to stay together (even though it's for the sake of their respective families)

2006-12-22 03:45:18 · 9 answers · asked by Hana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I formed a bond with my ex boyfriend's son while we were together for 3 years. When we broke up, I felt like my child was being ripped away from me. My ex hates me now and since he left me to go back to his ex wife, I can't go see his son. The ex wife and I don't get along anymore. But I love that child so much and it is killing me that I haven't seen him in 4 months or heard his little voice or listened to his little laugh. He is only 6 years old. I feel like I lost my son even though I didn't give birth to him. I haven't stopped looking at his picture since he sent it. It sits on my desk at work right next to my kids' picture.

2006-12-22 03:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by thewhalehunter12 2 in Family

2006-12-22 03:44:29 · 30 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Singles & Dating

You brought me nothing but tears inside
I no longer have anything else to hide
You said you loved me
But I don't understand- can't you see?

I loved you and so much more
But all you did was crush my heart and make it poor
There are no more petals on my flower
I loved you every day, every hour

Unlike you, you left me behind
You set off for a new love you were determind to find
I hope you are happy, I wouldn't want any more
But just remember I can't take it... you made my heart sore

2006-12-22 03:44:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so here I am at work. I was in the bathroom taking a dump and my boss opens the door!!!! i thought i locked the door but apparantly not.. i want to die..i cant believe he walked in on such a smelly time!!! AHHHH ha ha ha

what is your most embarrassing moment???

2006-12-22 03:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by The Weed Fairy 4 in Friends

i got married before 1 month. in sex i attain the final stage quickly but my wife will attain the final stage after some time. tell me how i manage this contradiction

2006-12-22 03:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by AJITH 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you hang out with the seems to be popular people? YES/NO
Do you have more than 8 friends? YES/NO
Do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend? YES/NO
Do you have the coolest gadgets and styles that are out? YES/NO

If you answered:
4 yes, then you are very popular!
3 yes, then you are just hangin' with the popular people.
2 yes, then you lucky to have good friends.
1 yes, then you need to get a girlfriend/boyfriend or something.
0 yes, then you need to make friend and you're not popular.

When you are done leave you score and any comments that you have about this if you want!!
THANKS A LOT, HAVE A GOOD DAY!!!!!:)

2006-12-22 03:42:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf hasnt said anythink about it but i think im been a bit clingy with him.i call him 2 times a day but sometimes more.like today i rang him 3 times already but i cant help it.i only see him on a saturday cause he has school weekday and i find i realy miss him,worst when hes out with hes m8s who iv never meet i get worryed about him.were both 18 is it wrong me been clingy like this.also when im with him ill always hug him and try to be near him as much as i can.

2006-12-22 03:42:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a f/u from my other questions re: Cali. My husband made a bold move and went to California to work. We agreed that he could try it for a year. I never said or did he ask me to move ther b/c it was only supposed to be a year. He has 3 married guy room mates that are w/o their spouses also. For the last 8 months he has come home 6 days a month b/c he was usually working the rest of the time. Now, he is enrolled in school and has locked himself into another 1 1/2 years in California. We agreed that he could take the first 2 classes and then discuss where we would both transfer to or he would come back home. Well, he never came to me when those classes were finished and now is part of clinicals. He will not be able to come home for 3 months at a time. I have already spoken my peace on being lonely, depressed and feeling abandoned. He just keeps sayin this will all work out and just wait to see how much money he will make. He has not been overall a very good long distance partner.

2006-12-22 03:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 03:41:04 · 8 answers · asked by Takis 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Resistance not to love that is. AM I RIGHT? I feel that we can't not love something. It ranges from maybe loving someone itamatley, or loving a TV show. So I say the risistance of love is futile, do you agree?

2006-12-22 03:41:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually i got crush over my best friend and right from the day i proposed her, she is changed,........she says , she likes me,......but now her behaviour is entirely changed.. i m not getting even 1 call in whole month, which was 4 times a day before also i m out of city now
as i have taken admission outside. my studies r ruined , and everytime i think of her
whenever i call her , she behaves calmly but i dont c that previous spirit. please help me ........suggest me.......i dont wanna loose her.
i lost a sweet relationship just in search of a sweeter one
she says dat there is no one in her heart ..............and we need some more time
i know its a polite way to say no.......
i cant live without her

2006-12-22 03:40:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

every 1 in my coll is hittin on me....but i always wanna good friendship....pls help me....

2006-12-22 03:40:35 · 22 answers · asked by preetha 1 in Friends

2006-12-22 03:39:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Which color do you prefer and you think is sexier and nicer?

~MERRY CHRISTMAS~

2006-12-22 03:39:02 · 55 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Who misses the 90s music and who do you miss the most?
I miss salt n pepa with let`s talk about sex

2006-12-22 03:38:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 03:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by Claudia D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 03:38:16 · 29 answers · asked by broj7400 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i just got to know this, she passed away a month ago, i dont have any idea because of what, but i felt that my friend is most definitely still sad abt this. i have totally no idea how to console her. she's very important to me, to know that she's feeling sad & the fact that i could do nothing to help really sucks. please help!

2006-12-22 03:37:51 · 10 answers · asked by dr j 1 in Friends

Jessica Alba

or

Jessica Simpson?

2006-12-22 03:37:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating