asleep. His back was towards me and I scooted over to try and spoon him and put my arm around his body, around the ribs and he pushed my hand away. Not gentle put kind of jerked it away. Then like 2 hours later, I tried again because that is what I sometimes do and he did it again. I then asked him why he did that and he said that he did not mean to. He said that he was asleep and not aware he was doing this. Does this mean anything?
2006-12-22 03:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by DDee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Am I being parinoid or maybe while he was at work a female co worker tried to make a move on him and he was confused about where he was at in his sleep?
2006-12-22 03:51:31 · update #1
It means he was asleep.
People react funny when they are sleeping. You might have even been unintentionally pulling a hair on his chest or something annoying/tickling/painful. People who are sleeping react reflexively, not with any feeling.
My wife rolled onto me once while sleeping and kneed me in the balls. I woke up "owww" and she told me to shut up. We laugh about it now but that was the crummiest way to wake up ever.
2006-12-22 03:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was asleep and didn't know what he was doing. I sang a Rick Ross song in my sleep last night but woke up after about the second verse. We cracked up and went back to sleep. Born and raised in the county of Dade..... lol good times.
2006-12-22 11:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does not like to cuddle? Has he done this before? If in the past he has allowed you to hold him, and now he has change something maybe wrong. Try not to read into it too much though, it just could be he was asleep and reacted that way...
2006-12-22 11:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probley tired and wanted to sleep. Or he was sleeping, maybe he was almost asleep and thought you wanted something but wasnt in the mood. I wouldnt think of it as a big deal. At least you sleep with your husband. I dont because he snores to loud. lol
2006-12-22 11:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by browndog513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if he was asleep then maybe you scared the crap out of him , he could have been dreaming and thought it was someone else grabbing him. My husband when he sleeps will jump if I touch him and not because of me its because he is not aware that it is me especially from all the deployments he has been on . Its not you at all, when someone is in a deep sleep they may not have any idea at all that it is you doing that.
2006-12-22 11:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are preoccupied with something in your mind. Take it as a sign that either your intuition is trying to tell you something or you are over thinking. I know its a terrible option list...how do you tell the difference? Intuition is better to engage then not cause in the long run you will need to learn when its tellin the truth or not ...get it?
2006-12-22 11:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by lightlytread 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand when my husband cuddles with me while I am sleeping. I do not want him on me. It is so annoying. Maybe your man just needs his space. I think you are taking this to personal. Give the man room to move my friend!
2006-12-22 11:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It doesn't mean anything except he was asleep. He told you that as well. It means that you don't believe what he tells you and youj have to ask yourself why are you being so insecure.
2006-12-22 11:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, he probably didn't know. Now more importantly, you did tell him what happened and now he is probably out shopping for an awesome Xmas gift for you because he feels bad about it!
Nice timing.
2006-12-22 12:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was asleep. If he reacts that way when he is awake, then you have something to worry about.
2006-12-22 11:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋