Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

We broke up when I was pregnant because I wouldn't have an abortion. I haven't seen him in 3 1/2 years, I even moved 4 hours away. He shows up on my doorstep in the middle of the night because he wants me back, He said he was been trying to find us this whole time. I don't believe it because the court has my address. Do I owe it to my child to give it another chance with her father? Doesn't she deserve to grow up in a household with her mom and real dad?

2006-12-22 04:18:48 · 20 answers · asked by soultrip29 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend who I liked for a few years have not spoke for many months. She felt that because of my feelings it made it hard for us to be friends. It's a long story, but there were times in which she told me she liked me, and this obviously made it hard for me when in the end she decided she didn't want me. Anyway, so after recieving an email from her saying to never contact her again, about a month ago, she sent me a message, just to say hi, and to say that she hoped all is well. This was hard for me, as I never thought I would ever hear from her again. I replied in a nice way and just left it at that. I also know she has since met someone else which obviously hurts but if she is happy then it im happy for her. As it is getting to that xmas time of year, I don't know if I should just send her a message wishing her and her family a happy xmas etc, or if I should just leave it or not. I miss her, but don't want to complicate things in any way. Maybe leaving it is for the best?

2006-12-22 04:18:17 · 37 answers · asked by Mr looking for answers 2 in Friends

Please tell me.

2006-12-22 04:18:12 · 14 answers · asked by Rae 4 in Friends

I have some feelings for a guy friend at work. The problem is that he has a gf. We used to talk all the time, but now we don't talk anymore now since he wants me to forget him. but i still miss him.

2006-12-22 04:16:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im writting a book called "fantacy" and i need all the ideas i can get! dont be shy!

2006-12-22 04:16:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:16:49 · 1 answers · asked by Miss Understood 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:16:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:15:16 · 13 answers · asked by michelle f 1 in Singles & Dating

we pass each other often , and she stares right back. is she intrested?

2006-12-22 04:15:03 · 10 answers · asked by human 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:14:45 · 17 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is my classmate.

2006-12-22 04:14:43 · 1 answers · asked by Baru 1 in Friends

2006-12-22 04:13:53 · 6 answers · asked by mr.billionare 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby and I have been married for only 1 1/2 yrs. but together for 3 1/2 yrs. We have 2 very small children together, and I have 2 children f/ first marriage. The problem is all we do is fight. About my kids, money, who gets less sleep, (I am a stay-at-home mom, he works 50 hrs/wk).We sleep separately. The final straw was today, when he didn't turn in some info to the insuranc co. that I asked him to do mos ago, and now we have to pay for things that should've been covered. I love him, but I think the stress is becoming too much. Should I leave him and raise 4 kids on my own, (I raised the first 2 alone, so I know I can do it), or should I try one more time? Obviously I think he has good pts or I wouldn't have married him. He helps w/ the little ones, he provides all the money for the bills, (though I actually pay them, or they wouldn't be on time), and I know he loves me, is faithful, and he comes home every night. Help?

2006-12-22 04:13:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How we live and why we die. For me, Its a quest of faith. My entire population of personality has vanished. I told you how many I took, you say you don't want me to hurt myself. I'm not saying this Is how I feel, but If I didn't wake up, so what. I'd feel worse for my family then I would myself. I'm a freak show who cant get away from his own Issues. This Is the cause of my demise. I still have faith although this past year has been the most questionable for me. I'm I'll physically, a decomposing ankle that just wont heel. And I always tell God to help me yet he doesn't. Instead I'm a drug addict to everyone and NOBODY UNDERSTANDS WHAT I'M REALLY FEELING AND GOING THRU. My pillow now soaked and I cant see the key-board. Its crucial and nobody can get Involved but God when he decides to heal this. Steve.

2006-12-22 04:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How long, or should I say, short of a time did you wait before doing the dirty with someone you recently met. BE HONEST !

2006-12-22 04:13:30 · 16 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married now for almost 7 years. My husband and I have been through really rough times and he has been abusive at times. I met a guy at my work 2 years ago. In the last 2 years we have gotten really close (he has a girlfriend who he lives with though). One night me and this other guy kissed, I felt bad so I told my husband. We seperated for 3 months and got back together. Things have been going well, really well other than the trust issues. But I am still talking and have feelings for this other guy at work! We havent slept together or anything like that but have more of an emotional relationship I guess you could say as well as a physical attraction. This will never work with him, and my husband is really trying now. I dont want this man to be out of my life, but I need him to be so I can stop feeling so guilty! Where do I go from here?

2006-12-22 04:13:21 · 9 answers · asked by incognito27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I THINK I FALLING IN LOVE WITH ONE OF MY EX BOYFRIEND he call out of no were and before we hung up he said he love me what shiuld I do?

2006-12-22 04:13:03 · 10 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always thought that for my wedding, it would be hard to plan it so that I don't have my period on those few days! But when you set the wedding day so far in advance, how can you prevent that from happening? I think it would be awful if I had my period on that day, since I am saving sex for marriage and my wedding night would be ruined!

2006-12-22 04:12:43 · 24 answers · asked by reba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think that most men, if given the opportunity would cheat, if they were guaranteed not to be caught?

2006-12-22 04:12:29 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah R 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate Christmas! Not because of any deep emotional scars (boo hoo), but simply because I do! I'm not a Christian, so it's hypocritical of me for a start, and I simply don't enjoy the giving and recieving aspect. For a number of years now, I've wanted to be left out of the celebrations, but my family - which is large and very close - keep pursuading me to be part of it. Are they wrong for making me join in?

2006-12-22 04:12:11 · 50 answers · asked by Billy 2 in Family

I am 24 years old and still a virgin and have never been on a single date. The reason for this is not because I am ugly because I’m not ugly I am very good looking actually and I am not shy either. The reason I am single is because I am afraid of getting my heart broken and don’t want it too happen to me. Although it has happened when I have had crushes on a few girls but their either seeing someone or not interested. Because this happens too me all the time I have decided never to fall in love again. Because every time I do so it hurts so much when they tell me their not interested or seeing someone. Why do I fall for girls like this? Is this Gods way of telling me that I am meant to be single forever?

2006-12-22 04:11:59 · 24 answers · asked by Zeus 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help with jonathon s. i miss him i try to forget him i cant i try and try but it is so hard i miss him so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so my baby boo. dont talk about his name ok its sexy.U now wat i love him and everyone can no I LOVE U BABY BOO!

2006-12-22 04:11:05 · 19 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

CAN ANYONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME FEED BACK ON HOW TO GET EVERYTHING TOGETHER, LIKE....... WHERE CAN I FIND CHEAP FAVORS, OR WHERE CAN I GO TO FIND CHEAP VASE CYLINDERS AS MY CENTER PIECES. MY COLORS ARE BLACK&WHITE W/SPLASH OF RED (BOUQUETS). I JUST WANT SOME FEED BACK AND IF ANYONE IS FROM CHICAGO OR JUST KNOW OF A BANQUETS HALL THAT IS LOCAL (ACROSS THE GLOBE) THAT WILL BE GREAT TO BECAUSE THAT'S WEAR MY ISSUES ARE COMING ABOUT IS FIND A HALL AND NOT A CHAPEL BECAUSE I WANT TO DO BOTH CEREMONY AND RECEPTION ALL IN ONE PLACE. BUT ANY INFO WILL BE HELPFUL ( IF EXPERIENCED).

2006-12-22 04:11:01 · 16 answers · asked by the real deal 2 in Weddings

Is this just a normal gift or is he in for the long haul with me?

2006-12-22 04:10:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

home for a xmas party. She's single and hasn't dated for a year...do you think she has a gift for me to open?

2006-12-22 04:09:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:09:06 · 21 answers · asked by superfudge 1 in Singles & Dating

To me it seems like all guys are the same....and they only use you for one thing...which is for their own personal pleasure, otherwise if they don't want anything they don't call you..... Sometimes I think that all guys are like that, but then again i know that their are some guys who are going to love you for you and not just to get sum.

2006-12-22 04:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by jenny_b2007 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, i hav a good friend, but we went out, so im all he can think about, but i dont like him that way anymore, wat do i do? I mean the world to him, and i just dont like him- but itz unfair to not tell him, and act like i still do, helllllllllllp!

2006-12-22 04:07:27 · 9 answers · asked by AliCat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Dad has married another women, whom i dont really care for sometimes. She treats her son with more respect and gives him the things he wants. I for one, dont get very much stuff anymore. And my step-mom spends my dad's money on things such as getting her hair done, and nails. She is sick all the time too, and doesnt work very much. She complains about how there isnt ever enough money for things, when she goes and colors her hair for $60. Should i say something?

2006-12-22 04:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by drainingrose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is the kind of girl who doesnt know what she want.
so, she treats guys like her buffet course.

after knowing her for so long, and telling her how i feel,
she secretly goes to another guy WITHOUT TELLING ME
that she loves another guy.

INSTEAD>>>she says to me, im sorry but im not ready for a relationship at the moment because of i just broke up with my boyfriend.


AND NOW SHE SECREETLY goes to another guy without telling me.

I found out of course and i told her i found out.

she said he's not my boyfriend. who told you that?

HAHA.. who told her that?

i replied to her, i saw that guy's picture on your friendster profile and testimonials on his profile saying stuff a gf would say to his bf.


AND YOU KNOW WHAT SHE REPLIED?

nah.soon to be my boyfriend.i also dunno.zz

i am pissed. ive had it with girls like this.
rich ***** who shows off her stuff and treat
guys like a buffet course.

im going to make her feel hurt so bad.
tips anyone?

2006-12-22 04:07:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships