2006-12-22 04:15:16 · 13 answers · asked by michelle f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because people are unpredictable.
2006-12-22 04:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not true. People don't always feel this way, only some do and that is too bad. I never try to hurt anyone and lest of all people I care about and neither should you. If someone has hurt you in any way then the best thing you can do is to put them out of your life because they don't care about you. Sometimes this is difficult if it is someone you care about and you have been treated this way. I know what it is because I have been treated this way. Sometimes you want answers but you don't get them because the person won't give you any instead they just ignore you after they have hurt you. It is hard to live with it but what else can you do except to continue to try to get the answers you seek? The best thing to do is to make at least an attempt to find out why someone has hurt you and if that doesn't bring results, then move on with your life and chalk it up to a bad relationship. But learn from it. Know what I mean?
2006-12-22 12:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never intentionally TRY to hurt someones feelings. Im a very blunt person and feel that I shouldnt hold back how Im feeling about something. So if that hurts someone when I tell them the truth, I still feel its BETTER for them to KNOW the truth rather than live in ignorance.
2006-12-22 12:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People don't ALWAYS do anything. Those that hurt others feelings sometimes do it intentionally, sometimes unintentionally.
Bottom line though is that you have no control over their words or actions...only of yourself...so why choose to be hurt? If you don't like how it feels, then don't choose to feel that way. Don't allow someone else's opinion to affect you in that manner. That just gives them power over you.
2006-12-22 12:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Without knowing specifics, the main reason that people put others down is because they have such a poor self esteem themselves, that the only way they can make themselves feel better about themselves, is to try to make others feel worse about themselves.
2006-12-22 12:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some people can only feel big by making someone else feel small.
2006-12-22 12:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it's like mind games they do it so they can feel in control or power over others basically there just big bullies dont let them get to you roll it off as a joke or somthing ok
2006-12-22 12:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I don't know why...I feel that need too. Maybe it helps because when you know you've hurt somebody... you become sure he/she loves you... It's silly I know...but is simply something i need to do...even though I always regret it...
2006-12-22 12:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think they have issues so they start hurting other ppl's feeling..
to get there anger out..!
2006-12-22 12:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its human nature... we do things that somethings we dont mean... but it ends up hurting other peoples feelings...
2006-12-22 12:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋