Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

My boyfriend of five years is starting to act funny.. Okay In the last four months I have been sexual with him four times in four months..He always says that he is to tired or just plain burned out..He is a cop. This is getting to much I mean I feel that I don't even know him anymore..I do understand that begin a cop is very stressful. My father was a cop for twelve years. I tell my boyfriend I understand where he is coming from with begin stressed and not having the engery he ONCE had..Does anyone think that he could be with some one else?? I am starting to get miserable, sexual frustrated. I feel that maybe I should just go home and forget all this and him.. Well he does try to make me happy by doing little things but I don't want anything I just want him to say I love you once in awhile or even just kiss me.. Yes he don't kiss me or even say I love you..I talk to him about it all the time and ask him why he don't do any of these things. Am I asking to much???

2006-12-22 04:43:34 · 16 answers · asked by Stunna 25 2 in Family

My wife has told me she doesn't love me anymore. She says she hasn't for years she has just been trying to be a good wife.
We met 12 years ago and married in 99. She had two tiny kids who I have raised as my own. I married her and did not father any children to take care of her and hers. I helped her get through school and get a great career from a poor single mother to a 2600 sqft house.
I had no idea until recently. A year ago she told me I needed to show her I loved her more. Ever since I have done things like love u emails, flowers left in her car, presents at work etc. I have never EVER cheated on her in any way.
She wants me to stay for the now teenage kids and she likes having sex with me. I am her f-buddy and financial partner now. She swears she never cheated and I believe her. She says I did nothing wrong and was a perfect husband.
My heart is in shreds. I can barely go out in public without crying or even vomiting.
Why would she do this to me?
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2006-12-22 04:42:36 · 31 answers · asked by SuperDude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its pretty self explanitory

2006-12-22 04:42:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i'm in love with this boy but he does not know it.
How would i know if he likes me to so i could make that move?

2006-12-22 04:42:17 · 10 answers · asked by dr3am_away16 d 1 in Singles & Dating

im 20 years old, my mom still beats me for no apparent reason, she is violent and gets into rages.
yesturday she smaked me up right before i had a final exam 12:00pm and my final was at 145pm.
becouse i was in my room getting ready, and my room was messy.
she smaked me up and i started crying cuz she said she was gonna take my room away from me , and my clothes.
so she looked through my bag and my wallet, so when she was about to look through my phone book to get to my guy friends numbers i distracted her and yelled out "i hate You" , she flipped out started smaking me around. then i said "your being a *****"
she smaked me around till my face was black and blue.
My life is crazy, my parents control me, my mom drops me and pics me up from school and i cant go out without them around, not at nights . I am with them 24/7. i have no privalages, no privacy no nothing.
is there anything i can do.?
I wanna move out and call the police,. my firned offered my her place.

2006-12-22 04:40:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

...besides pleasure...wat do u feel,wat goes through ur mind

2006-12-22 04:40:42 · 11 answers · asked by Melanie N 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by Clifford B 1 in Friends

and do not say ANSWERS

2006-12-22 04:39:41 · 12 answers · asked by spit on it 1 in Friends

I have a friend that wants to hang out with me. However, she keeps calling me at the last mintue. Like last night, she calls me at about 9ish and asked me if I want to have dinner with her this Friday night. I told her I already have plans. Sometimes, she call me on the day she wants to hang out and see if I'm avaliable. This also bothers me. I like to make plans in advance. I feel irritated that she waits to the last mintue to call me and see if I want to hang out. Do I have a right to feel annoyed? What can I say to her to make her stop trying to make plans at the last mintue?

2006-12-22 04:39:19 · 17 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Friends

She still has to cook, clean, to laundry, go food store, and care for the kids?

But when a man gets sick the world has to come to a grinding hault and they act like big babies?

2006-12-22 04:39:05 · 2 answers · asked by Dr. D. AKA Evil Woman 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 04:39:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-22 04:38:43 · 17 answers · asked by mann548 1 in Singles & Dating

Im haveing these weird dreams about my closest guy friend that make no sense at all. These dreams just pick up right from were they left off & they've gone so far as to where I'm haveing his kid in my dream. These dreams make no sense to me because he has a girl and I have no intest in him in that way shape or form. Should I tell him? How do I get rid of these dreams? HELP!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-22 04:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by Baby girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he/her decides to be a monk/nun?

2006-12-22 04:37:54 · 17 answers · asked by HahaYou'rePwned! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:37:40 · 21 answers · asked by sydneyjohnston823 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:36:03 · 31 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

a decent looking guy comes to you asks whether he can kiss your shoes would you let him? if no, if he offered money would that change your mind? for how much?

2006-12-22 04:35:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my friend justine went out with this boy named kyle they broke up like 6 months ago and she has made it perfectly clear that she doesnt like him and she has had a couple of boyfriends since. well me and kyle became really close as friends, but it wasnt untill like this past week that I thought that I could have more then just friends feelings..and I dont know what to do because I dont know if he feels the same way, and I dont want to ruin our friendship by telling him and if i dont tell him, im keeping all these emotions in me.. so what do i do?

2006-12-22 04:35:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf likes to sleep with my dirty clothes on the nights im not there. he never told me about it.. but i surprised him one night when i thought i wasnt going to make it home. he had gone trough the hamper and made apile of my dirty clothes (mainly undergarments) to sleep on. so now he isnt too shy to ask and i intentionally leave out some dirty paties, bras, and nylons, when i know im going to make it home too late..

anyone ever have a similar experience..

2006-12-22 04:33:40 · 26 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

My man is going to south beach with a guy friend for about a week. We have been seeing each other for almost six months but with no real commitments. he said he's going down there to relax, think, workout and of course go out with his friends for drinks, etc...and that he's not going to be with anyone because he has me and we get along really really well.
I personally think I need to know what our status is. Are we just kicking it? Are we more then that? ladies and gents ...thoughts on this.

2006-12-22 04:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by tonaloha 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:32:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 04:32:29 · 20 answers · asked by Denni 2 in Singles & Dating

Its seems like everyone but me has a MySpace page. I know that people say its a place for friends but how can you trust someone you meet online????

2006-12-22 04:32:07 · 8 answers · asked by Kokolicious06 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 04:31:45 · 42 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

I don't have any plans for the New Year's Eve..I'm home with my parents and almost all of my little number of friends have other plans...What should I do?Stay with family and cry remembering my ex and bad things this year brought to me..or do what?

2006-12-22 04:31:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

HES 25 YEARS OLD
DOESNT LIKE SPORTS

2006-12-22 04:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

What kind of games does she like?

what movie should i take he to?

what should i buy her for Christmas?

what should i say when i talk to her without sounding like a complete morron?

2006-12-22 04:31:22 · 6 answers · asked by RyBialach 1 in Singles & Dating

on Wednesday night i was downstairs watching football alone and eating dry roasted peanuts, and my 8 year old son came downstairs,when he went back upstairs his mum said to him whats your dad doing,and he said sitting on the sofa with his nuts in his mouth,lol

2006-12-22 04:31:15 · 24 answers · asked by Dave 6 in Family

i dont think its fair not give more than the other do you

2006-12-22 04:31:07 · 18 answers · asked by kelley l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

shortly before he moved back to jersey, he had moved to kansas for an ex. he says it was cuz she said she was pregnant. she says it was cuz they decided to move to next level. he said i was first girl he ejaculated in. she said she was. he said he had sex with her twice cuz he was scared to get something from her. she says it was between 20 30 and they didn't use condoms all the time. i want to know why he would lie. is it to keep me from judging his past? everyone has a part and you have to accept it. if what she's saying is all true..then idk. it makes me wonder what else if lied about. if he was straight up from beginning i'd be fine. but lltru knowing she's telling me all this is trueky making me have second thoughts. i love this guy but i don't like being lied to. help me..give me some advice no how to get the info from him or what to do. i am so confused

2006-12-22 04:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by misz.puff 1 in Other - Family & Relationships