Im haveing these weird dreams about my closest guy friend that make no sense at all. These dreams just pick up right from were they left off & they've gone so far as to where I'm haveing his kid in my dream. These dreams make no sense to me because he has a girl and I have no intest in him in that way shape or form. Should I tell him? How do I get rid of these dreams? HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-22 04:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by Baby girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 16 and he is 18
2006-12-22 05:06:34 · update #1
you can't really get rid of them... they represent a piece of yoour subconcous... he means alot to you, so your mind is focused on that, it's not a big deal
2006-12-22 04:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by cher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you dreams are more about the events than the person. You probably are looking forward to getting married and having kids, so you dream. The reason it's him is the familiarity. You care about him and would consider it if things were different.
I don't think you should mention it. It would just stir up drama. Just let it be a little fun thing you think about when you think of him.
2006-12-22 12:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely do not tell him about these dreams unless you don't care that he might mis-interpret what you're telling him.
Your dreams are just doing what is a very normal thing...they're simply testing the "what ifs." They don't mean you're in love with him or that you actually want any of that to happen.
2006-12-26 11:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by nova30180 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u been spending too much time together, however it's a normal thing....maybe you should try thinking about something else before going to bed and maaybe u'll dream about it instead of ur guy friend.
2006-12-22 12:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by ME 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to remember that dreams are the SUB conscious at work. You have no control over them and sometimes they are pretty damn strange. I suppose you could tell him if you want to, but you don't have to. Remember, it's what you do with him when you are AWAKE that counts.
2006-12-22 12:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by danl747 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dream is dream. Don't worried about your dream. Dream is a reflection of mind. There are three kinds of mind--conscious, sub-conscious and unconscious mind. You can think about something consciously or sub-consciously or unconsciously. Whatever you think, it may reflect in dream.
2006-12-22 12:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by akandaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say to tell him and kinda laugh it off with him. They might go away that way. You might be stressing it so much that they keep coming back.
2006-12-22 12:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dreams r never like it is.since u dont have real feelings 4 him in that way ,i say dont really worry about it cuz i dont think it means anything, but i could be wrong.
2006-12-22 12:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by i ♥ abercrombie! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe ur thinkin of him and u dont realize it? usually dreams are recaps of ur day in diff. forms....
2006-12-22 12:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU can act them out on me if you want
2006-12-22 12:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by spit on it 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋