Well my friend justine went out with this boy named kyle they broke up like 6 months ago and she has made it perfectly clear that she doesnt like him and she has had a couple of boyfriends since. well me and kyle became really close as friends, but it wasnt untill like this past week that I thought that I could have more then just friends feelings..and I dont know what to do because I dont know if he feels the same way, and I dont want to ruin our friendship by telling him and if i dont tell him, im keeping all these emotions in me.. so what do i do?
2006-12-22 04:35:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think dating your true friends' ex is not right, and if it were my ex it would be out of questions for my friends to even consider it, unless it was some extreme case of two people meant to be together, and even so I would probably still feel kind of wierd about it. As far as telling him, it won't ruin the friendship, if you two are friends theres a good chance he has some interest in you anyway - men and women are usually never just friends, one or the other is usually always interested in the other on some level.
2006-12-22 04:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by filtertea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as your feelings are concerned, what do you really want to do? If you choose not to say anything to him how will you know if he is looking at you as more or less than a friend? Keeping all kinds of emotions bottled up inside of you is bad because it will sooner or later lead to an explosion and you will burst out with some comment that reflects how you feel, maybe not to him but certainly to someone else. How can you ruin a friendship by being honest about your feelings about someone? People want others to be honest with them. I know I have found this to be true in the majority of instances and I think you will too if you ask others you know. I would want someone to be honest with me about their feelings and I think you would want the same so don't you think this guy would want the same thing too?
2006-12-22 12:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T!! I did the same...and our friendship got ruined!!We never again got to get along like we used to...And you know what??A real friendship is far more valuable then a love relation which is short and leaves a better taste...
2006-12-22 12:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first talk to your friend..she may be ok with it.. but the best way to ruin a friendship is to date the ex... so if she isnt ok with it be prepared to choose..
2006-12-22 12:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by bajajunglemama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there is nothing in friendship and nothing to hide anything so please ask him but in very friendly manner and tell him even you don't have lets be friends
2006-12-22 12:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by satyan 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u gay?
2006-12-22 12:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by sydneyjohnston823 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋