my bf likes to sleep with my dirty clothes on the nights im not there. he never told me about it.. but i surprised him one night when i thought i wasnt going to make it home. he had gone trough the hamper and made apile of my dirty clothes (mainly undergarments) to sleep on. so now he isnt too shy to ask and i intentionally leave out some dirty paties, bras, and nylons, when i know im going to make it home too late..
anyone ever have a similar experience..
2006-12-22 04:33:40 · 26 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's disgusting
2006-12-22 04:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I had an ex-girlfriend that used to take my worn t-shirts and sleep in them all the time! I remember finding about 6 of my t-shirts at her house when I found out. She said that she like my smell and that it was very comforting when she was sleeping alone. I thought I was going nuts with my disappearing t-shirts. Now that I think about it, I'm pretty sure she still has a bunch of my t-shirts!
2006-12-22 12:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by drakekse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have my old man when we were dating use to sleep with one of my shirts i wear that day.... He said that it made him feel like i was there to sleep with it was sweet... Nothing wrong with that.....
I figured better him hugging on my clothes i wear that day then going and getting company from someone else while i was at work or away.......
2006-12-22 12:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but I think it's kinda gross and cute at the same time. instead of undergarments give him an old sweat shirt he can have to sleep with.
2006-12-22 12:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Like to dream that ur there and has ur clothes to have ur smell if u dont like that at least u know he dosent cheated on u when ur not home
2006-12-22 12:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is another peice of anectododle proof about the power of pheremones. Women have been known to take shirts from their male partners to sleep in when they aren't around. Its nice to have your loved one's scent around to remind you of them. Its not that weird...... and I'm glad you aren't grossed out, or turned off by this. He must REALY love you.
2006-12-22 12:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well smell is supposed to be one of our strongest senses for bringing up memories. I can understand why he might like this though i have never come accross it before. doesnt sound harmful so if it doesnt bug you then keep it up.
2006-12-22 12:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by nuke81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex wife used to sleep with my shirt wrapped around a pillow, she said she couldnt sleep if i wasnt with her at night, but this helped she said, untill she got a girlfriend to take my place when i wasnt there.....
2006-12-22 12:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe thats kinda cute he wants to have something of yours that smells like you when you're not there! i kinda have the same thing, my boyfriend likes me to give him my clothes when i'm done wearing him (hes away at school) and spray my perfume on em. and he sleeps with it. cute =)
2006-12-22 12:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's different.....I guess it's cute in a way. I don't know. But I'm so anal about cleanliness that I wouldbe mad my clothes were laying in a pile. I don't know about this one.
2006-12-22 12:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a normal fetish to me. there is generaly no harm in this and now that it is in the open between you two, he'll probably be more comfortable.
2006-12-22 12:40:47 · answer #11 · answered by mik_deere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋