shortly before he moved back to jersey, he had moved to kansas for an ex. he says it was cuz she said she was pregnant. she says it was cuz they decided to move to next level. he said i was first girl he ejaculated in. she said she was. he said he had sex with her twice cuz he was scared to get something from her. she says it was between 20 30 and they didn't use condoms all the time. i want to know why he would lie. is it to keep me from judging his past? everyone has a part and you have to accept it. if what she's saying is all true..then idk. it makes me wonder what else if lied about. if he was straight up from beginning i'd be fine. but lltru knowing she's telling me all this is trueky making me have second thoughts. i love this guy but i don't like being lied to. help me..give me some advice no how to get the info from him or what to do. i am so confused
2006-12-22 04:30:32 · 5 answers · asked by misz.puff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The whole thing is questionable and either could be lying. She could be lying to get you away from him so she can have another go or he's lying because he really doesn't want you to judge him or leave for that matter.
2006-12-22 04:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one why are you talking to her? How did that happen? Why are you even discussing this with your boyfriend in the first place and how would it even come up? Secondly this is his EX! Do you really think that what she says is for sure the truth? He moved to be with her and left....... I'm sure she has some bitterness in there. Because if they broke up well she would not want to discuss this with you. Yor boyfriend has chosen to be with you and you are prying into his past. What you are doing is being a continuation of whatever problem made him leave his ex. You say you love him? Well with no trust you have nothing coming even close. Its an old story. If you havent discussed this with him forget this and decide to be with him...... we all have pasts that we learned from and helped become better people in the next relationship. Keep at this...... well hes a guy and I would be more concerned that you will push him away and he will leave you. Concentrate on your relationship before its too late if you harbor any hope for a future w. him.
2006-12-22 13:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are wondering why you haven't gotten pregnant by this guy? I sincerely hope you get smart and open those eyes of yours. You are headed for a very hard life if you do not. It almost seems like you are trying to get pregnant to keep him. IF that is the case, it won't happen. He'll still leave you. Chances are he'll before the baby is born and you will go through a very lonely pregnancy all by yourself. This guy is lying because he doesn't want you to know the truth. period. That is why people lie...to hide the truth. Why? Who knows. But, isn't it bad enough that he doesn't want you to know the truth...no matter what the reason is? What are you confused about?
2006-12-22 14:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by lilmisstickletoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself does it matter how many times? Don't bring the ex into your current relationship. If they have no children together then there is no reason for her to be around. What is her motive.. That is a situation you will never know the honest answer to because you were not there.
There are going to be trust issues that need to be dealt with. I don't know any MAN who wants to be with a WOMAN that keeps questioning his honesty. Especially if he is telling the truth. If you have known him long enough to love him. Then you have known him long enough to know when he is telling the truth. Anything else is just unnecessary.
You know the answer.....
2006-12-22 13:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a habitual liar. Get away from him.
2006-12-22 12:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋