Please tell me.
2006-12-22 04:18:12 · 14 answers · asked by Rae 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What have you got to lose?
2006-12-22 04:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experiences in relationships and friendships there is absolutely no substitute for honesty. How old are you? Im thinking if youre an adult you really need to act like one and approach the situation like so. In my opinion the best relationships grow from long friendships. Being that there is a real mutual care for one another there is no playing around with the other persons feelings because you ALREADY genuinely care for one another. Worst case scenario is he doesnt feel the same way and you continue your friendship. If thats the case you must be mature enough to continue the friendship without treating him differently. You have nothing to lose, but much to gain! Good luck.
2006-12-22 12:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nyana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to ask yourself if your getting vibes for him, that he likes you more than just a friend. Also if you do tell him, would it mess up your friendship. But if you can't tell or if you are burning to tell him; go to a place that is comfortable for you and him. It will relax both of you and the best thing to do is to sit him down; were u to are by yourselves, take a deep breathe and let it go. Make you you let know him that if the feelings aren't the same you still want the friend ship.
2006-12-22 12:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by jennisea04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you have to find out if he likes you. I hope he does, and some ways to find is to ask his friends, see if he acts differntly around you. Then you have some choices of how to ask him:
-Write a letter
-Just ask him <---------- I recommend this one
-Get someone to ask him
-Wait for some time and see if he asks you, and he he doesn't, ask him about how he feels towards you and tell him to be honest
Well, thoose are some ways, if you need more feel free to e-mail me!
2006-12-22 12:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him by the hand (in private) and tell him how much you love more than a friend (be careful you could be messing up your friendship) and ask how he feels about you.good luck.
2006-12-22 12:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by jovene_cunningham2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be a dialog rather than simply making a statement.
So, you tell him. Then what?
2006-12-22 12:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look girl just tell him.He may feel the same about you.You never know until you try!!!!!
2006-12-22 12:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by halleyluvu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel about him and u never know he mite have feelings for u 2.
2006-12-22 12:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by RoseMary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my bf I loved him right before we left for college, and then he thought about and called me and "I love you too" It worked well.
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-22 12:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Molly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should but what happens if he doesn't love you back it can ruin a friendship
2006-12-22 12:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by ShineEStar* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"An unspoken love is the quickest way to a heavy heart." Just tell him. Right now!!!!!!!!!!! Call him, go to his house, what ever it takes just do it now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-22 12:22:13 · answer #11 · answered by Castle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋