this guy asked me if i liked him i dont know what to say yes or no i use to like him but not any more he is easy going and kind what should i do i dont want to use him but if i say iyes i will use him he is really nice and sweet. HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-22 02:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him the truth, always the best way to go
2006-12-22 02:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel but deep down inside you still like him if you're thinking about or asking if you should go out wit him!!!
Maybe if you tell him that you have to spend a little time wit him before u decide u can see if u still have the same feelings for him!!! If He really likes you he'll be willing to wait!:) Hope for the best!!!
2006-12-22 10:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Feesa:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are different kinds of friendships. One is like a brotherly love, one is if you do this or that then I will___. One is of respect. Let him know at what level you like him, but that it will not be a like-love-interest at this time. After the bad news tell him the good news- that someone would want him because he is kind, he is considerate, he is fun to be around, he is trustworthy and loyal.....After you let him down, build him up.
2006-12-22 10:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Northville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Just because someone likes you doesn't mean that it is your responsibility to like them back.
Take it slow too, maybe you will learn a lot from him as a friend : )
2006-12-22 10:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the truth - use the "sandwich method" whenever you are about to put something out there that is negative sandwich it in between two positive things...
2006-12-22 10:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by NaomiLSullivan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your true feelings. Try saying something like..." I used to like you before but now those feelings kinda faded and I feel like we're more close friends then boyfriend/girlfriend". Just tell him but without hurting his feelings.
2006-12-22 10:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him, don't tell him you do.
He will not be nice and sweet for long after lying women keep using him.
2006-12-22 10:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by Richard E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him know how you used to feel but it is not the same anymore. Do not use him because you would not want anybody to hurt you like that.
2006-12-22 10:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by confused1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth.
better to not be with him ever than to hurt him in a month or 2.
2006-12-22 10:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by Megan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Truth sometimes hurts but lies hurt much more.
Tell the honest truth.
2006-12-22 10:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋