Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

2006-12-22 09:57:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a persistent problem of going out after work drinking with his buddies and not telling me until he's very late coming home. I told him this bothers me because every day he gets home he's too tired from work to spend any time with me, but if his friends invite him out he's got more than enough energy. I also explained that I'm at home all day every day and that I would enjoy going with him, but only if he wants me there. Today he called me telling me that a girl at work that he doesn't know is transfering jobs and she wants him and others from work to go to the bar and celebrate. He said "So I don't get in trouble, I'm calling to let you know that I'm going....did you want to go?" I asked if he was inviting me just because he didn't want to get in trouble or if he actually wanted me to go. He said "a little of both" He explained that he doesn't care if I'm there or not he's just inviting me because he "knows" that if he doesn't I'll be mad. Should I go or do I get mad?

2006-12-22 09:56:39 · 21 answers · asked by Vixen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, guys, tell the truth, when you're having sex, what would you want "her" to be wearing, or would you want her to be wearing anything?

2006-12-22 09:56:26 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

had went on a trip to see my sick in health grandmother in the midwest traveling from San Francisco to St.Louis.And when I arrived there, my aunt called me to let me know she wouldn't be able to pick me up,and she told me to catch the bus, closer to the town, then when I got there, some of my cousins were there and they just looked,keep in mind I hadn't seen any of these people in thirthteen years, supposedly they were upset at the fact that I never visited them, and they were upset at the fact that I waited until my grandmother was on her deathbed, so everyone was sort of upset at me, for that reason, then I left which was bad because my grandmother was dying and I should have stayed by her side, and then my family was even more upset at me calling me bitches, and to never contact them again.My aunt who was supposed to pick me up, kept saying you think you a celebrity, you think you all that.And I'm like damn, they really dislike me for not coming back to visit,How do I deal with t

2006-12-22 09:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 1 in Family

I got my best friend a christmas present over the internet. But it won't get here until next week because of the huge rush.

Before I go any further you should know that I am in love with him and have been for 4 years.

I don't want to buy his love or tell him how I feel and risk our friendship. But at the same time I want to tell him how much he means to me and that I don't know what I would do without him.

How do I tell him that without screeming I am in love with you? !

And should I tell him that I got him something or wait and surprise him next week ?

I don't know what to do can you help me ?

2006-12-22 09:55:24 · 6 answers · asked by Alley 9 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:54:57 · 27 answers · asked by jenny_byers2005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother and father in-law have treated me with disprespect for the last 7 years. My husband did not have a real close relationship with his parents before we got married other than a few phone calls on the holidays or seeing them on the holidays. I come from a real close family who talks about every other day. After we got married I always initiated get togethers, etc.... his parents rarely called us after we got married on a regular basis or came to visit us, we went to their house for the holidays and that was pretty much it. Everything was always on their terms, holidays usually. My husband wrote them a nice letter explaining how we wanted to be close etc and his mom assumed I wrote the letter and wrote a nasty letter back to me about how I pissed her off and she thought the letter was stupid and that she was cancelling christmas with us. This was last year. I wrote her a letter in response to her nasty letter about 7 months ago and havent heard from them since. what now?

2006-12-22 09:53:50 · 10 answers · asked by karlee 3 in Family

checked it. He lied about having your password. You only chatted one time and that was the day he started spying on you. I was IM my ex husband because i saw he was online i asked how was he and that was that. Then later I was having problems with my computer and i asked for his help. Well i buzzed him and my mike was on. he said that his mike wasn't there. So i was unaware that he could hear me. So my phone rung and it was my fiance and my ex heard the whole convo. He got very upset and started to right some mean stuff. So later my fiance came home and checked everything and got upset. come to find out he had been checking my emails and everything. He found some incriminating stuff. I do everything for him,I never am around other men nor do I normally talk to them. I feel very betrayed because he quoted some things that I said to someone while chatting that wasn't the complete truth.What should i do.

2006-12-22 09:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by LA LA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

around a month ago i came home to my house and realised everyone apart from me was at it , and while sex doesn't bother me so much the fact that i am and always have been due to circumstances alone bothers me i don't always agree with my housemates on everything we're very different pepple and with 9 of us sometimes it feels very much like i'm being ganged up on, but i'm so sick of being alone all i really want is that bit of human kindess that one person we can go to anytime just to be told its okay because they feel the same too...like sometimes i wish i just had someone to sleep next to just to know i'm not alone



i am straight btw and do have some friends just not people i can go to 24/7

2006-12-22 09:52:37 · 13 answers · asked by Herbert A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:52:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...i know its turning into soap of the night...but now we just had a huge row...followed by the best sex EVER...and he's asked me to marry him...but he wants me to wear the marigolds at the altar...scoff if you like but everyone has their quirks...and well...he was prepared to duel at dawn for me...but i just dont like the Marigold thing...should i put aside my itchy hands, accept his quirks and just take the plunge....once his divorce is through of course...???...oh and he's gone down the pub to give me time to think...;0)

2006-12-22 09:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it happens. he's married, too, as a matter of fact. she thinks i don't know, or knows i'm not saying anything right now. and i sit at home spanking it to the thought of her having the hottest times of her life.

i feel like a mutant. why am i feeling like this?

2006-12-22 09:52:04 · 13 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like when a guy says he's going 2 do something and he doesn't

2006-12-22 09:51:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by LoVeAnGeL_BabyV 1 in Family

I filed for a divorce in CA, and after one month of my filing the divorce, my wife is filing spousal abuse against me.
She is telling all lies to get revenge of the Divorce, I just want to get rid of her but it seems she is making thinks complicated for me.
How realistic is her claim ? Do you think the Court will buy her claim ? My only fear is that she is a women and women always gets the favor in this typ of case --peopl belive women more than a men in case of abuse.

How can the Court find out whether she lies or not?

2006-12-22 09:49:39 · 13 answers · asked by john s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been 'asked out' by plenty of guys that I really wanted and still want to go out with. The problem is, though, I don't feel comfortable accepting gifts (like Christmas, birthday, holidays, anniversary, etc.) from guys. What should I do? Please help!

Thanks so much.

2006-12-22 09:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Taylor B. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:48:53 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica D 1 in Friends

10 years together i ran out of idea's...HELP...

2006-12-22 09:46:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i get on well with all my children they are 13 16 and 18 she wont let me see them to be spiteful i used to have them evryweekend i still see the oldest to0 but she doesnt kno tht she is now remarried i havent seen my youngest for 3 yrs and i have done nothing wrong please help

2006-12-22 09:46:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-22 09:46:34 · 18 answers · asked by Shawn M 1 in Family

2006-12-22 09:46:23 · 9 answers · asked by Quo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

Is sex supposed to be silent and quiet? If not, how do you ask ur wife or g/f to be more vocal during sex if there is no communication? I think communication is important and can improve sex between couple.

2006-12-22 09:45:32 · 10 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well my boyfriend, who we both want to spend the rest, and i mean THE REST, of oyur lives together. been going out with him with two months (i know i know, it hasnt been a long time but we truly love eachother, all right?) anyways.. for christmas i got him a $25 gift card to blockbuster since he ALWAYSSS goes there and gets movies and stuff. then im thinking about giving him a candle, becuz he joked about before of buying a candle to light it up when we make love... ya know what i mean? lol.. anyways, yea, gift card.. candle... is that enough? to me, it doesnt seem like enough at all. what else should i get him? i dont wanna get him a music cd (cause he downloads music) dont want to buy him a movie (he rents always) and i cant buy him tickets to any concerts or band showings or whatever so thats outta the question. i also just recently gave him a veryy long letter showing how much i love him so a sweet love note is outta the question.
what else should i give the man i love?

2006-12-22 09:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:45:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know. I have a boyfriend who is really sexy and always wants to take naps with me and be sexy and feel me. should I brake up with him?

2006-12-22 09:44:54 · 9 answers · asked by lemarkz51 1 in Singles & Dating

If you were naughty, what did you do? ; )

2006-12-22 09:44:09 · 20 answers · asked by misskrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-22 09:43:39 · 8 answers · asked by The Bachelor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

K... I am 18 and I consider myself to be pretty congenial. I am smart, pretty, outgoing, religious, and well groomed, boys tell me I am one of the prettiest girls in school and very easy to get along with, so how come I can never get a date?

2006-12-22 09:43:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have these two "friends" they say ive changed and they dont want to hang out like we used to. but the thing is i dont see that i have changed but i can see differances in them.but the real problem is is that one of them got me a presnet for x-mas witha poem stating how she remebers the good times and and she will always be there for me . but i didnt get her a present and wut is she trying to tell me ?????? Help!!!

2006-12-22 09:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by Abbey L 1 in Friends