i have these two "friends" they say ive changed and they dont want to hang out like we used to. but the thing is i dont see that i have changed but i can see differances in them.but the real problem is is that one of them got me a presnet for x-mas witha poem stating how she remebers the good times and and she will always be there for me . but i didnt get her a present and wut is she trying to tell me ?????? Help!!!
2006-12-22 09:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by Abbey L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe you have changed and do not realize it.. so ask them what you need to correct.. and get her a present...
2006-12-22 09:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Promise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Facts of life--people change. Most of us don't change on a basic character level, however our priorities change. We grow, evolve, become educated and change. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. We also gain new friends and leave old ones behind. Your true friends, who will be there for you always will accept the changes in you, as you should accept changes in them. As we mature, we start to see our prior relationships in a new light. How it was okay for us to be treated before is no longer okay. We might not have been brave enough to stand up to our friends, so-called friends,when we were young, but now we do.
Talk to your friend about her gift. Ask her to explain and have a discussion. You might have to leave these people behind. That's life. Some people simply don't change as they grow.
2006-12-22 10:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by trvlbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a huge issue of miscommunication. They say you are changing, you say they are changing. Maybe you need to sit down and just talk. Faithful are the wounds of a friend; if yall love and care for each other than the pain will be minimal-but understandable-because you are trying to be honest without trying to hurt.
2006-12-22 09:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the classic 2's company 3's a crowd.
your true friend is the one who sent you a gift.
the other is one of the "mean girls" and is jealous of your friendship with the one who gave you the gift.
she wants to keep her all to herself and push you out.
your other friend the one with gift, wants to be your friend,
but doesn't want to lose the other friend, and is afriad she won't be able to have both of you as friends so she must chose this other girl........the controlling one must have a mean streak and a lot of control over this friend of yours.
just be friends with the one who gave you a gift, and talk to her on the phone, and don't try and be friends at school, or in a group with the mean girl.
seen the movie MEAN GIRLS?
girls can be so cruel and jealous and possesive!!
sorry, i know it hurts.
I swear losing a friend hurts more than breaking up with your 2nd b/f. guys come and go. gal friends are like gold. some are silver and some are gold. keep them both, and respect each other's boundaries and new rules of friendship.
try and make new friends who have same interests as you in your classes.
it's happened to me, and it hurts!
just know you are lovable and a great person, and you don't have to please anyone but you!
be the best you!
rent the movie Mean Girls!!!
2006-12-22 09:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 21:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of changes? Are you doing drugs? You have a new boyfriend? Details. only thing I suggest is doing lunch with her and talking it over.
2006-12-22 09:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too late to still get her a present. Hurry up && get out there && ge her one. Save your friendship. LoL
2006-12-22 09:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by MuZzZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's trying to tell you she's upset because you didn't get her a present.
2006-12-22 09:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a present and tell her she is right.
2006-12-22 09:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by manibal_mf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋