Family & Relationships - 22 December 2006

going to have a beer with him then you call him at 8:00 and ask him what time you coming home and he says I would like to stay longer to hang out with my friends I have not hung out in a while then you say NO come home by 11:30pm so he doesnt and you call him back and his phone is shut off and he comes home at 5:00 in the morning drunk with his phone all broken and wet and he tells you I just hung out with the guys and my phone fell i n the toilet, not a big deal... What would you think?
Should I kick him out my house? Im mad... I know I hardley let him hang out with his friends....Im confussed

2006-12-22 09:26:35 · 29 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

I was called an outkast when I treid to join an organization, by one of the group members.And another member took me to the side and told me to stop trying to be her friend because I don't need to do that...(which hurted my feelings)and a couple of them would ignore me and such, Why would someone call me that and how would you interpret what they are saying

2006-12-22 09:25:29 · 6 answers · asked by Misguided Woman 1 in Friends

I must admit to finding people cute on the basis of their avatar. Have you?
I only loosely resemble mine - what about you?

2006-12-22 09:25:28 · 31 answers · asked by Kitty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 19 years old, and i haven't even gone on one date since i was in the 12th grade or since i graduated high school. that was two years ago. last time i really had a boyfriend was in the 9th grade. im not ugly or anything. i am a very shy person. it was a lot easier dating in high school than it is now because there were so many boys at my high school. but I go to a vocational school and the majority of the people there are girls. there's only like three guys and they're all gay. I go with my friends to places and hang out, and usually there are a lot of guys there, but usually, they look but they don't approach. I'm not going up to them and start talking becuase i'm affraid of rejection. what should i do?? I wan't to date or maybe even get a boyfriend, but i just forgot how. what am i doing wrong??

2006-12-22 09:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by hope 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who says that she would never do anything to hurt me but there's this boy that i like and she keeps putting her body all over him right in fornt of me and she knows i like him. My friend also dresses like she's famous and she always put fake hair in her hair to make it look long, when really im the one with the long hair. And she doesn't even like my crush...
What should i do to get my crush back and what does my friend sounds like to you?

2006-12-22 09:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by KidCudi 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 months dumped me 2 weeks ago, and he was my first boyfriend and it really hurt. He was upset about it too at the time, but has been going out wihth his mates loads, so I think he's over it. My trouble is that I dream about him every night, and I really wish we were still together. We've stayed in touch on instant messenger, but chatting just reminds me what a great bloke he is and how good he made me feel.

I don't know I loved him, but I cared for him very much. How can I get past this and just be friends with him?

2006-12-22 09:24:16 · 25 answers · asked by jowigley 2 in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago my sister brought home her new boyfriend for Thanksgiving. For some reason the guy have me a creepy feeling. When I found out she planned to bring him back for Christmas I decided to go online and see if I could find any info about him. Well, I entered his name into http://background-records.net/ and it turns out that he is a criminal!

He has been convicted of sexual assault and felony drug possession. If my dad finds out he will be very angry. I don't know if my sister knows about this guys past but I do not want him in our home. What is the best way to get her to leave her boyfriend behind when she comes home this weekend? I would appreciate any advice because I don't know how to handle the situation. Thanks.

2006-12-22 09:24:07 · 24 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do this mean he likes you

2006-12-22 09:22:58 · 39 answers · asked by flymeaway22 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:22:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 17 years old and i live in texas. Can i move out?

2006-12-22 09:21:36 · 11 answers · asked by answer_me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-22 09:20:32 · 8 answers · asked by joshuacobera 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-22 09:20:32 · 17 answers · asked by Steve H. 1 in Singles & Dating

I hope this becomes an honest and rational debate... here goes : ) If a man shaves completely bald (smooth, totally hairless) his pubic region what effect does this have? Does it look longer therefore more mature OR does it look childish due to the lack of hair. As an aside if the guy in question is 21 and five inches erect does this change the equation at all? Thanks alot for your help :)

2006-12-22 09:20:17 · 6 answers · asked by mikykinsABC 1 in Singles & Dating

UGH! Ok, yeah there's this boy that I am, like, obsessed with. and he knows it. We're friends 'n all, but not THAT good of friends. His name is, Dylan. And I can't stop thinking about him whatsoever. and whenever I do think about him a chill runs up my back, you know? And I miss him A LOT. I won't be able to see him for 11 days! b/c it's winter break. And it sucks big time!
What am I feeling do you know? Why can't I stop thinking about him?
Thanks 4 your help.

2006-12-22 09:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 in Friends

I had a friend on and off for 20 years who ended up marrying my old high school boyfriend. I stayed friends with her and even got together on doubledates with them with my husband. SHe always called to complain to me about how she hated this and that and if she had the money she would leave him.(she lived with him for 7 years)then she became pregnant with his baby and they were then going to get married. she basically wanted her kid to have his last name. then she asks me to be in the wedding. This was just too much/too weird for me. I didn't approve of her marrying him. I do not like how he treats her. So I mailed her a kind letter wishing her well and explained to her that I could not be in her wedding and that I hoped she understood. She never wrote back, never called me. she show at my house a year later with baby and husband like nothing ever happened. I couldn't talk with her then, she left and told my husband"I hope its worth 25 years of friendship!" what does that mean?

2006-12-22 09:18:43 · 14 answers · asked by karlee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How come Michael jackson's Kids are WHITE ! If they are part of him regardless if he has bleached his skin then his DNA is still black so his kids wouldnt be white they would be mixed . And why hasnt anyone ever mentioned this? Whose Kids are they did he buy them

2006-12-22 09:18:22 · 15 answers · asked by C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime my friend and I walk past a group of guys, she says they were checking me out. What do guys do when they "check someone out"?? I don't believe her and want to know what to look for to see if she is being honest.

2006-12-22 09:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

SAD FOR MR. LIMPET.

2006-12-22 09:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i appreicate all of you for your answer and i need more answers. Like mall for instance i am trying to get this girl and i cant just open my mouth or sumthing and i would like to get her celll phone number and talk to her all night long how would i do that?

2006-12-22 09:16:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

fact that i have an idea of what i think love is supposed to feel like and if it isn't then I think it's not love.

2006-12-22 09:16:39 · 20 answers · asked by james.foster80 1 in Singles & Dating

this is not for the meek. i'm 35 and my wife is 32. five years ago, i was in a bus accident that left me disable - including substantial loss of use of my genitals. my wife has stuck with me, and been ever caring. she is actually inspring.

now, i know there are many ways to get a woman off - but, correct me if i'm wrong - having sex itself is pretty important to a woman. or at least to my wife.

i've been thinking about letting her have sex with somebody else. she'd never ask, but i know she's human and there times i can tell she wants to badly. i feel like its the right thing to do.

i don't worry that she'd leave me for another. i know in my heart she wouldn't leave me out to dry. but is it the right thing? could i cope with such a decision? how do i get through the night when she is out? how do i deal with her when she comes back. i want to let her - and i'm almost there - i almost have all of my issues work out - but give me any tips if you have them.

2006-12-22 09:16:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for 2 months now, and he told me that he liked me and he knows i like him, we are very confortable around each other. I'm latin... on our second date we went to a latin club, and he didn't know how to dance at the beggining but h learned quick... (i'm a dance instructor, salsa, merengue, bachata, etc) so we had fun that day...
a few days ago i told him that I wanted to go to a party or something, and but turns out, we haven't ben able. The thing is that I said Would u take me to a party with u? (it was more or less that exact same words). And he said (kind of joking) u don't bring sand to the beach...
Meaning, that there were a lot of girls at every party, and he didn't have to bring another one (me).
Why did he do that? Is that normal? am I supposed to be angry?

2006-12-22 09:16:18 · 15 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a girl for about 6 months and I want to get her underwear for x-mas since her current collection could be improved. Should I a) buy her Victoria Secret gift card b) pick out stuff myself or c) do nothing? I also have a nice gift already, so that would be additional. Girls, let me know if you have any other info.

2006-12-22 09:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by Rebbew 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to know if i should pursue the man who stole my heart or sacrifice my happiness so my kids could be with tier dad?

2006-12-22 09:14:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-22 09:13:41 · 21 answers · asked by erindeckmen5 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like the jock type?
The artistic type?
The protective type?
Just cuz it's not on the list dusnt mean u cant write it, so tell me ur opinions.

2006-12-22 09:12:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so alot of ya'll knew BOHICA, so for the best answer, lets see who knows whats the rank with 3 chevrons underneath and a star in the middle?

2006-12-22 09:11:09 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

my mother in law and father in law have been staying with us since Oct 2006 to help my brother in law. The living situation is becoming uncomfortable because we live in a very small house there is always conflicts about using the restroom, taking showers etc. My son is feeling very uncomfortable and so am I. My in-laws expect for me to do everything housework, cook, etc and work outside the home. There is even fights over a bag of chips I gave my son some chips and my father in law got mad because they were his chips. Me and my husband pay all the bills and buy groceries and share everything with them so this really hurt my feelings and made me angry. Pls help

2006-12-22 09:10:41 · 12 answers · asked by angelina o 1 in Family

my bf always used to be like o and can't wait to see u and stuff when we were on the phone but like know i always say like can i see u and he never asks me ever to come over anymore i always have to ask him........ does this mean hes mad at me or something??? or is he just tired of me ..............do other guys do this???

2006-12-22 09:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by brittany bear! 3 in Singles & Dating

i work at a resturant as a chef. this job can be stressful and sometimes i get sick of looking at food, but my husband insists i cook him dinner before i leave for work each night. i want to hit him in the face and tell him to cook his own damn dinner, but i need a more obvoius way

2006-12-22 09:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by neff8684 5 in Other - Family & Relationships