i want to know if i should pursue the man who stole my heart or sacrifice my happiness so my kids could be with tier dad?
2006-12-22 09:14:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ur kids will be with their father regardless of ur desicion- go with ur heart & be smart about the choice u make. Merry xmas!
2006-12-22 09:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think really hard on what you really want. If your relationship with your husband is going no where, and you really all ready gave it all you have to try to fix it and nothing is happening, then it is better to split for good and be friends so your kids can have the best of both of you guys. Then I say you have to make sure that you are not running to some ones else arms just to get rid of your past. Also keep in mind that whom ever you decide to bring in to your life will be a part of the kids as well; so take your time and make wise decisions...
2006-12-22 18:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love your husband any more it won't be good for you or the kids to stay together. Best to part in a friendly way and make sure he can see the kids. Hope you have a happy life with your new love and all works out well for you. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
2006-12-22 17:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by apacheswoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After only 6 months of seperation how can anyone steal your heart? This is a rebound relationship and they never work out. Try working on yourself for the next year and then you will be able to think more clearly.
2006-12-22 17:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart, but take the other man out of the equation. If he were not around would you want to work things out with your husband? Don't leave your husband to run to another man - never works out good in the end and will hurt you in the divorce.
2006-12-22 17:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by T C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably see what are the issues that have not been discussed that are causing the problems in the marriage and try to work on them but I believe when kids are involved that one should do everything in our power to stay together.. I believe God never tests us beyond what we cannot handle...
2006-12-22 17:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by james.foster80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would your kids have to sacrifice a relationship with their dad if you start a new relationship? I don't understand. Your kids should come before any new relationship. I think we need more information.
2006-12-22 17:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's hard. Do you think maybe you could tell your family the truth and then try to still be apart of their life? Just go with who you love more and who you think is more important or what you think is more important. Your kid's life? or your love life?
Good Luck
2006-12-22 17:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never stay with anyone because of the kids.your unhappiness will affect your children.your fights will affect your children.you separated for a reason.stay with the man you love,work out liberal visitation with the children.When you are happy it will show and you will be a better mother.
2006-12-22 17:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sacrifice anything. Your husbands sucks. Otherwise you'd be happy. Trust me.
2006-12-22 17:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by crazyloonynice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋