going to have a beer with him then you call him at 8:00 and ask him what time you coming home and he says I would like to stay longer to hang out with my friends I have not hung out in a while then you say NO come home by 11:30pm so he doesnt and you call him back and his phone is shut off and he comes home at 5:00 in the morning drunk with his phone all broken and wet and he tells you I just hung out with the guys and my phone fell i n the toilet, not a big deal... What would you think?
Should I kick him out my house? Im mad... I know I hardley let him hang out with his friends....Im confussed
2006-12-22 09:26:35 · 29 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him some room to hang with his friends or he will end up leaving you. my ol lady and i have times when we go with our friends and it helps keep our relationship open. there is no need to lie. alot of times neither one of us really wants to go out with friends because we know we can any time .
2006-12-22 09:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by longhairjim33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate the term giving eachother some space,cos once u r in a relationship you work things out evenly, if so wants space they should be single.. so im not gonna tell you that but if this is a bf depends on his age but pls dropping the phone in the toilet..that sounds lame..his friend didnt have a phone just to let u know so u r not worried thinkin someth wrong might have happened..and if this is your husband i dont think husbands just get lost till the early morning..and come home sayin not a big deal..i think you should probably tell him u r upset but keep it calm..and dont say you hardly let him hang out with friends they dont like that..lol
2006-12-22 09:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by molokogirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is very unhealthy for the two of you not to have outside interests and time alone from each other with friends. His friends probably broke the phone because you kept calling him. He was hanging out and having fun with the fellas, you should have went out with the girls and had some fun to. Don't be angry, figure out why you are so clingy and unwilling to allow him to go out without a fight. God bless****
2006-12-22 09:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't go out very often then you need to back off. Everything will mellow out and all will be fine. If you kick him out, he won't have anything to do and he will wind up back wherever he was at 5:00 in the morning.
2006-12-22 09:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in a good relationship noone should have to ask permission. There is trust. There is give and take. I think you let him know you were upset but you're sorry you were controlling. Next time just tell him to stay out with his friends but please let you know when he'll be home and to call if it's gonna change so you don't worry.
2006-12-22 09:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bored Enough To Be Here 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he comes home drunk, cell phone broken, I don't think he's telling the truth. when you're drunk, you don't make sense, why don't you call his friends "girlfriend" or "wife" to see what he said to her. If she tells you that he was home or was watching TV or something, you man is LYING TO YOUR FACE!!!! after he's hung over and well enough to drive, tell him to get out and to come back when he's ready to tell the truth about whatever he's been doing!
2006-12-22 09:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be suspicious, no doubt. Let it pass for now, but if it happens again interrogate him as much as possible, then consider kicking him out. All guys deserve a second chance to get right, but never a third.
2006-12-22 09:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No don't kick him out. well this is my opinion. he just was so excited to be outt with the guys and things got a little out of hand. just ask im to be more careful and respect the time he says he would be home. thigs might just get better.
2006-12-22 09:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Yung and in Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out my house, really? I am thinking that would be too extreme. Talk to him and tell him this kind of behavior is not expected. If he keeps repeating, then kick him out. Once in a blue moon, everybody needs to let their steam out.
2006-12-22 09:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be open and honest with him about how you feel. He needs to feel comfortable enough with you that he can tell you what he's doing and want to spend time with you. He's obviously not telling you everything because the way you are treating him is making him feel like he can't make any descisions. This will only encourage his behaviour to worsen. You need to find a common ground were you can compromized, make him feel like you want him around to spend time with him not to watch what he's doing.
2006-12-22 09:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by liz04ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋